Me and this guy don't go to the same school and we talk a lot on facebook/text. I've talked to him a couple times at footbal games, but thats it. This weekend we're going to see toy story togetherr :D
i just want some tips on how to make it less awkward, and more enjoyable :) thank you! will add more details if neededHow not to make our first date awkward? (guys advice please)?
Be relaxed...focus on enjoying the evening. You're going to a movie so a lot of time will be spent sitting in silence. Make the most of the time you can chat...get to know one another. Share experiences, compare classes, goals, future plans, etc.
All kinds of things to talk about and laugh about...including the movie itself. Enjoy!How not to make our first date awkward? (guys advice please)?
Firstly, I am a guy. And my sincere advice is:
Your worst fear is running into an awkward and silent position, where it feels really empty, and all the hype and excitement gone. Since you might not really know much about the guy, try to get info about him from people around him. That should give you a brief summary about him.
Now, you don't want to sit through the entire Toy Story movie just laughing along with the movie, right? Maybe, try to start it nicely with a meal. Break the ice. Eat facing him, and have a heart-to-heart chat. Try to focus on a topic. Any topic. This topic should last you until you have entered into the cinema and after you sat down. This way, you won't be having a silent entrance.
Throughout the movie, discuss the movie with him (personally I like to discuss the movie during the movie, its funny), laugh along with him. If you feel really, really into him and you know deep in your heart that he likes you, you could actually put your head on his shoulders!
That would completely grind the ice into snow. From that point onwards, he may reveal his love for you.
Have a wonderful movie with him, act right, and god bless.
Get him to talk about his interests... such as what subjects he likes and why he likes them. avoid yes/no questions - leave them open-ended so that there is always a need for a sentence to explain. discussing non-personal topics as 'why do you like your school' tend to go nowhere because you get answers that may not be his. if he's at the age to drive a car or will soon be, that's always a possibility. be sure to give feedback on yourself as he tells his interests as that will cause him to see conversation openings as well.
Mainly, relax. He's probably a bit nervous too. and don't feel nervous if there are some quiet moments. Attempting to fill every void can cause you to be talking too much and displaying nervousness. and do enjoy the movie... :)
You do not need to worry about making things awkward. You both have talked before and you have seen him at the football games.
Be yourself and have confidence in you and things will be okay.
By the way the guy should be impressing you
Good Luck
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