I need to meet a nice girl. :( dunno where or how. Advice/tips please?

theres this girl im kinda interested in but shes just a random girl on the train i know nothing about her and i cant think of a way to apprach her without sounding like im trying to pick her up. So how do i meet girls and get talking to them and get them interested etc you know the whole things girl shy nerds ask. and another problem i know roughly 60-70 people around college of which 2 people (including myself) are single. I have nothing bad in my talking skills, just none of my female friends are single and approaching someone who I dont know and just start chatting to them just strikes me as... kinda wierd. Help pleaseI need to meet a nice girl. :( dunno where or how. Advice/tips please?
sit next to her on the train


then take sweets with you...offer her one


make conversation


and then ask her if she would like to go for a drink or out sometime


if she says yes...get her number


sorted :DI need to meet a nice girl. :( dunno where or how. Advice/tips please?
well, you could try going to a park or sporting event. maybe a resturant. even a train station or airport. go to parties.


usually you meet someone when you least expect it.





don't go to a mall.


do you really want a girlfriend who hangs around in a mall all day?
How to Get Good with Women Quickly





There’s a lot of ambiguity about the specific process that one must go through to go from chump to champ, in regards to women. Lots of times guys will run around in circles and waste time on pointless things. Then 5 years later, they still haven’t improved as much as they should have.





In this article I clear the dust off this issue and give you a clear, concise method for getting good with women as quickly as possible without wasting time doing pointless things.





Warning: The steps below take work. It is not easy. This journey will probably be one of the most difficult things you’ll ever do. It’s also one of the most rewarding things. Having an abundance of beautiful women in your life is pretty awesome. It can take a LONG time, and lots of hard work, but you know what? It’s worth it!





If you want to get SCARY good with women, as quickly as possible, there are 3 main things that you have to focus on: Attitude/Mindset, Lifestyle, and Approaches





Attitude/Mindset


No matter how far along you are in terms of your success with women (or in any endeavor in life), you should always keep your “student mindset”. Just because I’ve been actively working on myself for 2 years doesn’t mean anything. I’m no better or worse than anyone else. I’m still a student of the game and still learning every day. ALWAYS BE LEARNING. Try out new stuff. If you feel that you are “above” something or someone then you’re on the wrong track. You can be more experienced, but you’re still a student, and you’re always learning and getting better. This attitude is deadly and will help you improve much faster than the chumps who feel like they “already made it”. Stay hungry, you’ll see the difference.





Approaches


You’ve got to approach women that you don’t know and talk to them. Start with “Hey I’m Sean (insert your name)” and smile. Soon you’ll learn how to hold conversations, then how to get physical, then how to tease, then how to go on dates, then how to get laid. Eventually you will be getting laid very very consistently. It’ll freak you out how easy this process is once you get it.





What you should do: Go out 3 or more times a week and meet women. Some guys can handle going out 7 times, some can’t. Figure out what works for you. You’re best bet would be going to night clubs and bars because there you’ll find lots of women to practice on. If you blow it with one girl, you can turn around and talk to another one right away. If you’re not old enough to go to clubs and bars or if you just can’t do it, you have to find somewhere else with a lot of women. You can try malls or bookstores. Go out 4x a week and approach 10 girls each time. Make a custom plan to fit your schedule. The more women you talk to the faster you’ll improve, which brings me to my next point…





Lifestyle


Women should be part of your life. Get more girls who are friends. You’ll approach girls, get their numbers. If it doesn’t work out, keep in touch with them anyway. After a couple months you should have way more girls in your phone than guys.





Note: At one point I had to make an excel spread sheet because I forgot which girl was which. This is common, you’ll get it too.





If you have a sister, hang out with her. Surround yourself with as many women as possible. Old, young, fat, slim, funny lookin’, hot, etc… The point is to get you comfortable with the feminine energy. Women will begin to feel more safe and relaxed around you simply from the vibe that you project.





If you: are always learning, doing your approaches consistently, and hanging out with lots of girls everyday, your results with women (and self confidence in general) will skyrocket. In a month, you’ll see a major improvement, in a year you won’t even recognize yourself.





Take the plunge, you’ll be glad you did.