Basically I'm afraid that I will lose my job because for the past several months I've pretty much showed up and browsed the web all day. I dread the end of the week when I have to put in my time and explain what I did... The guilt is tremendous.
I'm a ';Developer';, as in application/database developer, and I can do pretty good at writing applications, but lately I've gotten a few tasks to create some reports and I just simply don't know how to do them. I don't understand the business side of it at all and I don't give a crap about that stuff anymore.
Adding to my depression is the fact that I've lost most of my hearing due to meniere's disease in the last 10 years ( and I've been a musician for about 30 yrs). Also my memory and concentration seem affected (not a good thing in programming). I feel totally stuck. I live on an island, so there's not much work and the pay is just barely enough to stay afloat. I have a family to support so there's no way I can quit.Any advice on how to beat my lack of motivation/procrastination/sla鈥?problem?
I know how you feel. I work in an office too and you are right sometimes it is not very interesting or motivating.
You say you are depressed and you do sound like you are. There is help for that. If you see a doctor about your depression , hearing loss and try to find some way in your life to have fun again things will get better.Any advice on how to beat my lack of motivation/procrastination/sla鈥?problem?
I've lost much of my hearing in my left ear, so I understand that. You could always reach out to others via the web. Start your own website. That's what I did. You'll gain more motivation once you start doing something.
Look at my site. If you want to do something like that yourself, just read the ';My Passion'; page.
Chances are, your boss has similar worries.
thats really sad. depending on where you live...you should try finding another job while keeping the same one you have now. you can try to stick to two jobs at once. or maybe become famous with writing music since you're a musician.
It sounds like you may have depression. Get it checked out by your doctor. Maybe change your job?
I sympathize with you and I'm sure a lot of other people do too. I suggest meditation. 20 min/day, every day, find a quiet place, relax, breathe deeply, and keep your mind clear. When thoughts push in, push them back out. It's difficult at first but you will get better at it. It will help with your guilt, concentration, memory, low mood, and procrastination, and probably fix other aspects of your life.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Not able to forget girl even after 10 years.Please advice,how to divert myself?
I am not able to forget a girl even after 10 years when i was in High school.
Right now i am working and married.
It happenned recently when i recently found her and exchanged some E-mails.And now it has become tough to work,pass time alone.Whatever i do i see her face around.
Does anybody has any advice for controling such emotions?
She has become a good friend and there are no wrong intentions too but somehow i want her to be near me.Please help.Not able to forget girl even after 10 years.Please advice,how to divert myself?
Ok, if it has become hard for you to work, to pass time alone, and you want her to be near you, then what holds you from getting a divorce and marrying her??? What is that exactly that holds you from doing that??? Are you afraid to hurt your wife and your children? By getting the divorce you will be making a huge favor to them, because nothing is worse than being married to a man that cannot forget another woman. By divorcing your wife, you will be giving her an opportunity to meet another man who will love her, and only her, and therefore provide her with happiness that she deserves. Children will finally start live in the atmosfer free of deceit. You, will also be happy by finally reuniting with your highschool sweetheart. At first it will hurt, but everybody will be trully happy at last! Here you have a choice, if you can't live without your highschool love - get the divorce. Let your wife go and finally find her own happiness that she deserves. Or keep living in a world of deceit. Decide once and for all, and do what you have to do! What holds you from doing that?
Sounds scary, huh? Then get over that childish infatuation now. The candy in a glistenning wrapping is tempting, but it might be very well not what you expected to taste once you unwrap it. Be careful not to lose a real treasure for a shiny fib.Not able to forget girl even after 10 years.Please advice,how to divert myself?
talk to a GP u trust. its possible u might need anti-obsessional treatment. Best of luck!
There is nothing wrong with friends. Invite her to your house for dinner so she can meet your wife!
first of all tell this problem to u r wife she will really help u out and then u may consult a physiologist.
I think pretty soon you gone be in big trouble,are you willing to give on yr marriage if not you need to find other way to divert yourself
Uhh, That's like a dejavu of a problem I had.
Problem solved automatically when I changed the city because of job. Damn it felt bad at time. Still really good friends, I wish it could be more than just friends:( I really love her...in my own way...
Can't really give you any good advice because I don't know your situation, just don't let her go if you feel that way...
And don't start dating her or you ruin the whole thing... and you marriage on side.....
Emotions suck, don't know any cure for them. Maybe booze and weed, but nothing else;)
Let your wife know about this... she will give you the best advice.
be with her more and more in presence of your wife, and i recommend to become all of you friends. You, she and your wife.
do u want her more than just a good friend? do u secretly wish u married her instead. are u currently sexually attracted to her? if the above is yes for u, u are on dangerous ground coz you are currently married. u may not want to hear this, but if the above is true u got to break the freindship (honestly tell her) if u want to preserve your marriage %26amp; father to your kids if u have any. u can't have 2 legs in 2 boats, can't go far. worst of all, there maybe a waterfall around the corner u can't get away from coz u paddling 2 boats instead of 1. please have good think about things.
most of all, i wish u peace, man
Then you're asking a wrong a question. ask if you really love your wife.skin
Right now i am working and married.
It happenned recently when i recently found her and exchanged some E-mails.And now it has become tough to work,pass time alone.Whatever i do i see her face around.
Does anybody has any advice for controling such emotions?
She has become a good friend and there are no wrong intentions too but somehow i want her to be near me.Please help.Not able to forget girl even after 10 years.Please advice,how to divert myself?
Ok, if it has become hard for you to work, to pass time alone, and you want her to be near you, then what holds you from getting a divorce and marrying her??? What is that exactly that holds you from doing that??? Are you afraid to hurt your wife and your children? By getting the divorce you will be making a huge favor to them, because nothing is worse than being married to a man that cannot forget another woman. By divorcing your wife, you will be giving her an opportunity to meet another man who will love her, and only her, and therefore provide her with happiness that she deserves. Children will finally start live in the atmosfer free of deceit. You, will also be happy by finally reuniting with your highschool sweetheart. At first it will hurt, but everybody will be trully happy at last! Here you have a choice, if you can't live without your highschool love - get the divorce. Let your wife go and finally find her own happiness that she deserves. Or keep living in a world of deceit. Decide once and for all, and do what you have to do! What holds you from doing that?
Sounds scary, huh? Then get over that childish infatuation now. The candy in a glistenning wrapping is tempting, but it might be very well not what you expected to taste once you unwrap it. Be careful not to lose a real treasure for a shiny fib.Not able to forget girl even after 10 years.Please advice,how to divert myself?
talk to a GP u trust. its possible u might need anti-obsessional treatment. Best of luck!
There is nothing wrong with friends. Invite her to your house for dinner so she can meet your wife!
first of all tell this problem to u r wife she will really help u out and then u may consult a physiologist.
I think pretty soon you gone be in big trouble,are you willing to give on yr marriage if not you need to find other way to divert yourself
Uhh, That's like a dejavu of a problem I had.
Problem solved automatically when I changed the city because of job. Damn it felt bad at time. Still really good friends, I wish it could be more than just friends:( I really love her...in my own way...
Can't really give you any good advice because I don't know your situation, just don't let her go if you feel that way...
And don't start dating her or you ruin the whole thing... and you marriage on side.....
Emotions suck, don't know any cure for them. Maybe booze and weed, but nothing else;)
Let your wife know about this... she will give you the best advice.
be with her more and more in presence of your wife, and i recommend to become all of you friends. You, she and your wife.
do u want her more than just a good friend? do u secretly wish u married her instead. are u currently sexually attracted to her? if the above is yes for u, u are on dangerous ground coz you are currently married. u may not want to hear this, but if the above is true u got to break the freindship (honestly tell her) if u want to preserve your marriage %26amp; father to your kids if u have any. u can't have 2 legs in 2 boats, can't go far. worst of all, there maybe a waterfall around the corner u can't get away from coz u paddling 2 boats instead of 1. please have good think about things.
most of all, i wish u peace, man
Then you're asking a wrong a question. ask if you really love your wife.
Any advice on how to get stars?
The last 6 or so questions I asked I have received no stars =(. Can anyone help me coax some out of those who view my questions?Any advice on how to get stars?
sure if you ahve an interesting question people will give you a start b/c they like it. i'll give one i hoe i get best answer =]
sure if you ahve an interesting question people will give you a start b/c they like it. i'll give one i hoe i get best answer =]
Zit!!! Advice on how to get rid of it before it emerges?
I have this zit.it hasn't really came threw my skin yet and you cant see it but you can feel it.
Its sore when i touch it..talk or smile.
School starts tuesday.
any advice?Zit!!! Advice on how to get rid of it before it emerges?
ok....u need to boil water and totally put ur face in the steam like a bunch of times so that it can come out....do not touch it right now but if u keep on putting steam on it the white head will pop out and then u can pop it but use q tips to do that...and then wash ur face gently, after that u can put an on the spot treatmen like neautrogena on the spot it works great, it should be flattened out by then so u can cover up any redness with makeup!!!Zit!!! Advice on how to get rid of it before it emerges?
Try things such as tea tree oil, witch hazel, anything antibacterial.
Also, ice or cucumber could help calm it down.
Try not to touch it either, but if it does come to a head, just get rid of the puss, and do not squeeze any more out, or it will either scar or take even longer to go.
Lemon juice also dries them up, but dont use this too much as it could irritate the skin.
Make sure you are washing your face twice a day and moisturizing. DO NOT PICK AT THE ZIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?that is the worst thing you can do to it! If you want to cover it up make sure you only use mineral makeup so you don't make the zit worse or bother the rest of your face. . . . . . be careful with what you put on your face. . . .you might also want to try a face mask that you can purchase at any beauty store. Hop this helps!!!
WASH YOUR FACE!!!!!!!! it is sooooo important that you wash your face when you wake up (it gives you a jolt and makes me feel refreshed!) and before you go to bed. plus STAY AWAY from really greasy or salty foods for a little while. also DRINK WATER. it really works towards a healthier complexion :)
now if you're willing to spend like $15 buy a product called AcneFree. its like proactive where it has three steps but it actually works and is waaaaaay less expensive and it actually works and its cheaper and did i mention it actually works?? :) you won't be disappointed!
good luck to you chica :]
Ok, whatever you do don't touch it. You can either:
Put some toothpaste (yes, toothpaste) on it to majorly dry it out; or
leave it then pop the sucker out!
either way use cover-up but put some zit cream on it before you do.
uh oh!!!! don't pop it until it comes thrugh the skin more. then squeeze the life out of it lol. until then... use lots and lots of coverup!
Its sore when i touch it..talk or smile.
School starts tuesday.
any advice?Zit!!! Advice on how to get rid of it before it emerges?
ok....u need to boil water and totally put ur face in the steam like a bunch of times so that it can come out....do not touch it right now but if u keep on putting steam on it the white head will pop out and then u can pop it but use q tips to do that...and then wash ur face gently, after that u can put an on the spot treatmen like neautrogena on the spot it works great, it should be flattened out by then so u can cover up any redness with makeup!!!Zit!!! Advice on how to get rid of it before it emerges?
Try things such as tea tree oil, witch hazel, anything antibacterial.
Also, ice or cucumber could help calm it down.
Try not to touch it either, but if it does come to a head, just get rid of the puss, and do not squeeze any more out, or it will either scar or take even longer to go.
Lemon juice also dries them up, but dont use this too much as it could irritate the skin.
Make sure you are washing your face twice a day and moisturizing. DO NOT PICK AT THE ZIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!鈥?that is the worst thing you can do to it! If you want to cover it up make sure you only use mineral makeup so you don't make the zit worse or bother the rest of your face. . . . . . be careful with what you put on your face. . . .you might also want to try a face mask that you can purchase at any beauty store. Hop this helps!!!
WASH YOUR FACE!!!!!!!! it is sooooo important that you wash your face when you wake up (it gives you a jolt and makes me feel refreshed!) and before you go to bed. plus STAY AWAY from really greasy or salty foods for a little while. also DRINK WATER. it really works towards a healthier complexion :)
now if you're willing to spend like $15 buy a product called AcneFree. its like proactive where it has three steps but it actually works and is waaaaaay less expensive and it actually works and its cheaper and did i mention it actually works?? :) you won't be disappointed!
good luck to you chica :]
Ok, whatever you do don't touch it. You can either:
Put some toothpaste (yes, toothpaste) on it to majorly dry it out; or
leave it then pop the sucker out!
either way use cover-up but put some zit cream on it before you do.
uh oh!!!! don't pop it until it comes thrugh the skin more. then squeeze the life out of it lol. until then... use lots and lots of coverup!
Any advice on how to conceive?
Any advice to help me conceive?
Irregular cycles 34- 58days
TTC for 18months!
Any suggestions?
I have even tried clomid
I have a doctors appointment with a specialist in 45days.
* just looking for advice on anything else that could help!Any advice on how to conceive?
idkAny advice on how to conceive?
Best way to get prego is to trak your cycle and know your body. You want to try to have sex at least 4 or so days prior to ovulation, the day of ovulation, and a day or two after ovulation to increase sperm availability when the egg is dropped. Track your Basal Body Temp (BBT) on a chart. A basal thermometer is more detailed than a regular thermometer. For instance, a normal thermometer will track your temp at 98.6 while a BBT will track it at 98.64. What you're looking for is a shift in temp by at least .40 degrees. When you see that shift, you've already ovulated and conception has passed for this month.
You also want to track your cervical mucus (CM). You are usually dry right after your period with no CM. It starts to become creamy and thicker a few days prior to ovulation, and during ovulation, it increases in volume and becomes clear and sticky, much like egg whites. That's your optimal time to have sex.
Position is missionary. Woman on top lets sperm leak out easier, and is not the most productive way. Also, lay there for at least 15-20 min after intercourse to allow sperm to move up to the egg.
YOu may also want to use an ovulation predictor kit (OPK). I think that this would be the best thing for you since your periods are irregular. It tells you that you are about to ovulate with in 12-36 hours.
HOpe this helps!
There is a system that you may be interested in. It is frustrating when things don't work when you are trying to conceive but there is also a solution out there that may help in your situation. Anyway the system helps women get pregnant naturally and most of the time they get pregnant within 2 months using the system. It's not some ordinary get pregnant tips thing, its the real deal and explains what you need to do to get pregnant and how to reverse infertility or what problems you are having getting pregnant.
You should ask to be put on birth control so you could work on regulating your period, because its hard to conceive with irregular periods. In order to conceive you have to have sex during the time you ovulate...ovulation is hard to detect, but if you record your Cervical Mucus it can help. You're most fertile when you have a creamy egg white like discharge.
Good Luck!!!
Lots of Baby Dust to Both you and all of us TTC!!!
we also tried for a baby for about 1 year ..and no luck so wat we did was that on my doctor's appt , the doc told me to take birth control pills for 3 months and then stop them and then try again for concieving.. and we did exactly wat the the doc told us and it worked.. the first month that i didn't take the birth control pills, i was preg that month..
now i m a mom to the cutest 16 month old boy in the world..THANK YOU GOD FOR THIS GIFT
I heard that drinking 1 or more cups of green tea a day can double your chances of conception. Also, I heard good things about false unicorn root. There are several things that you could do, you just have to look for them.
Hope this helps
Lots of baby dust ****************
doctor advice is the best , listen to no one as it can cause harm to yr health, unless it frm a trustworthy source.
think of Jesus...it worked for me!
Irregular cycles 34- 58days
TTC for 18months!
Any suggestions?
I have even tried clomid
I have a doctors appointment with a specialist in 45days.
* just looking for advice on anything else that could help!Any advice on how to conceive?
idkAny advice on how to conceive?
Best way to get prego is to trak your cycle and know your body. You want to try to have sex at least 4 or so days prior to ovulation, the day of ovulation, and a day or two after ovulation to increase sperm availability when the egg is dropped. Track your Basal Body Temp (BBT) on a chart. A basal thermometer is more detailed than a regular thermometer. For instance, a normal thermometer will track your temp at 98.6 while a BBT will track it at 98.64. What you're looking for is a shift in temp by at least .40 degrees. When you see that shift, you've already ovulated and conception has passed for this month.
You also want to track your cervical mucus (CM). You are usually dry right after your period with no CM. It starts to become creamy and thicker a few days prior to ovulation, and during ovulation, it increases in volume and becomes clear and sticky, much like egg whites. That's your optimal time to have sex.
Position is missionary. Woman on top lets sperm leak out easier, and is not the most productive way. Also, lay there for at least 15-20 min after intercourse to allow sperm to move up to the egg.
YOu may also want to use an ovulation predictor kit (OPK). I think that this would be the best thing for you since your periods are irregular. It tells you that you are about to ovulate with in 12-36 hours.
HOpe this helps!
There is a system that you may be interested in. It is frustrating when things don't work when you are trying to conceive but there is also a solution out there that may help in your situation. Anyway the system helps women get pregnant naturally and most of the time they get pregnant within 2 months using the system. It's not some ordinary get pregnant tips thing, its the real deal and explains what you need to do to get pregnant and how to reverse infertility or what problems you are having getting pregnant.
You should ask to be put on birth control so you could work on regulating your period, because its hard to conceive with irregular periods. In order to conceive you have to have sex during the time you ovulate...ovulation is hard to detect, but if you record your Cervical Mucus it can help. You're most fertile when you have a creamy egg white like discharge.
Good Luck!!!
Lots of Baby Dust to Both you and all of us TTC!!!
we also tried for a baby for about 1 year ..and no luck so wat we did was that on my doctor's appt , the doc told me to take birth control pills for 3 months and then stop them and then try again for concieving.. and we did exactly wat the the doc told us and it worked.. the first month that i didn't take the birth control pills, i was preg that month..
now i m a mom to the cutest 16 month old boy in the world..THANK YOU GOD FOR THIS GIFT
I heard that drinking 1 or more cups of green tea a day can double your chances of conception. Also, I heard good things about false unicorn root. There are several things that you could do, you just have to look for them.
Hope this helps
Lots of baby dust ****************
doctor advice is the best , listen to no one as it can cause harm to yr health, unless it frm a trustworthy source.
think of Jesus...it worked for me!
I am Bisexual and dont know how to find anyone Like myself to talk to. Any advice?
I a 13 and I need someone to talk to, to help me find out more about it. I prefer they are older and have gone through more and just really need help. Email me at deja_kirkland@yahoo.com t help me.I am Bisexual and dont know how to find anyone Like myself to talk to. Any advice?
I would love to chat. :)
I am 20 but, I might just do. :) haha
Email me;
sierralou123@yahoo.com
I would love to chat. :)
I am 20 but, I might just do. :) haha
Email me;
sierralou123@yahoo.com
I need advice how to date a celibate guy, when i love sex, and want to share myself with him?
Im 21 and im dating a guy (24) who is a virgin for personal religious beliefs. i absolutely adore the restraint, faith and commitment that it takes for him to stick with this. but i am not a virgin, and i love sex when its with someone who i adore and love.
has anyone ever been in this situation where you want to be intimate with your partner, but doing so would end their vows of celibacy? and how did you cope? What happened? i want to ';share myself'; with him, but hes not interested.
ive never been faced with such a situation, and i have no clue what it the best way to approach it. I love him, and i want to be with him.
help!!I need advice how to date a celibate guy, when i love sex, and want to share myself with him?
Dont force him to have sex!!! now adays its a great thing when someone keeps themselves especially a guy. He is doing the right thing to wait for the one he wants to marry. If u you really love him you will honor that and wait....
I am celibate so i know how it feels... if u do it with him and you guys end up not working out it will hurt him badly!
has anyone ever been in this situation where you want to be intimate with your partner, but doing so would end their vows of celibacy? and how did you cope? What happened? i want to ';share myself'; with him, but hes not interested.
ive never been faced with such a situation, and i have no clue what it the best way to approach it. I love him, and i want to be with him.
help!!I need advice how to date a celibate guy, when i love sex, and want to share myself with him?
Dont force him to have sex!!! now adays its a great thing when someone keeps themselves especially a guy. He is doing the right thing to wait for the one he wants to marry. If u you really love him you will honor that and wait....
I am celibate so i know how it feels... if u do it with him and you guys end up not working out it will hurt him badly!
Bullying : theft. advice for a friend : how to deal with an adult bully who steals?
we've tried speaking with the authorities.
looking for a permanent solution.
he's asked for help.
he has no proof.
he needs help.
please.
thank you.Bullying : theft. advice for a friend : how to deal with an adult bully who steals?
If your friend has no proof, how do you know the bully is stealing? Maybe the bully is just taking what is rightfully his, and your friend is in fact the thief. Get your facts straight first.Bullying : theft. advice for a friend : how to deal with an adult bully who steals?
http://www.apa.org/monitor/julaug06/apat鈥?/a>
http://psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-鈥?/a>
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bullying
Bullies have psychological problems and stealing is kleptomania. It sounds like this person needs some therapy for real.
Invest in a covert hidden camera and catch him in the act. What is the nature of the theft? Is he stealing at work, from your home? More info needed.
Your question is confusing... stay away from this person. get a restraining order if you have to
looking for a permanent solution.
he's asked for help.
he has no proof.
he needs help.
please.
thank you.Bullying : theft. advice for a friend : how to deal with an adult bully who steals?
If your friend has no proof, how do you know the bully is stealing? Maybe the bully is just taking what is rightfully his, and your friend is in fact the thief. Get your facts straight first.Bullying : theft. advice for a friend : how to deal with an adult bully who steals?
http://www.apa.org/monitor/julaug06/apat鈥?/a>
http://psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-鈥?/a>
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bullying
Bullies have psychological problems and stealing is kleptomania. It sounds like this person needs some therapy for real.
Invest in a covert hidden camera and catch him in the act. What is the nature of the theft? Is he stealing at work, from your home? More info needed.
Your question is confusing... stay away from this person. get a restraining order if you have to
I need make-up advice; you know, like how to apply blush and stuff like that. Any advice?
If your just starting to wear make-up, you should only wear things like eye shadow, mascara, blush, and lip gloss. Maybe foundation if you can find the right kind. Here's some tips for all of those:
Eye Shadow: When applying eye shadow always use a small brush to ensure you put it on correctly. Always put a lighter color in the crease of your eye lid, and a darker shade a little higher above that. Never where blue eyeshadow or a dark green. Also when using dark pink, use it lightly, a red shade never looks good on the eyes.
Mascara: Applying mascara isn't as difficult as some people make it. Start out with a smaller brush, I suggest Clinique mascara, sold at Macy's, Dilliards and at some JCPenny's. If you open your mouth wide while applying mascara your eyes will grow wider so it's easier to apply that mascara. I usually look up when applying my mascara, it makes it easier. Once you have put on your mascara blink a couple of times and if it causes any smudges get a wet wash cloth and carefully get rid of the smudges.
Blush: Blush all depends on your skin tone. If your fair skinned, then use a light pink shade, especially in the spring like now. Using a large, wide brush helps when putting on blush. If you are tan then use a darker blush, pink on tan doesn't look good most of the time. I would apply this with a smaller brush. Also when applying any blush always smile a little bit, it lifts your cheek bones which helps a lot.
Lip Gloss: Use bright pink in the summer or the spring. In the fall or the winter use a color that looks brown in the bottle, but those colors don't really look like that on. When using lip gloss open your mouth for less smudges, also rub your lips together once or twice, but not too many times, or else the lip gloss will wear down and won't be noticeable.
Foundation: Foundation is a complicated make up tool, because everyone has different skin. Since I don't know what you look like I can't tell you what the best foundation for you would be. But, go to your local drug store (Walgreens, CVS Pharmacy, Ect.) and compare their foundations on your skin. Some foundations might look good when you put them on, but go under a florescent light in the store and see if it looks orange. If your just now wearing foundation find one of the foundations that adapt your skin tone. These are the kind you rub until it blends with your skin, these work well.
Hope this helps!I need make-up advice; you know, like how to apply blush and stuff like that. Any advice?
Firstly you have to find colors that suit you.
If your using foundation go for a color that is a tiny bit darker than your natural skin color, then apply dots of it on your chin, nose, cheeks and forehead, make sure your are in good light and smooth over your skin, the light ensures it is even.
Next blush, i use a brown blush that is similar to my foundation, suck in your cheeks and apply the blush lightly to the part just above where your cheek sucks in.
Next would be eyeliner (if your are going to use it) black or brown is usually best, it suits everyone and looks more natural, apply it to the inside part of you bottom lid ( 3/4 of the way to make your eyes look bigger) then thinly over the top of your lashes.
Next apply a eyeshadow that suits your color ( naturals like brown, cream for blue, greens for darker eyes), start from your outer eye and work towards your nose.
Apply black or dark brown mascara, thickly to your lashes without clumping it, so apply it bit by bit, go over them a few times.
and your done
apply gloss to your lips if you want, but with big pretty eyes keep lips simple.I need make-up advice; you know, like how to apply blush and stuff like that. Any advice?
When applying blush, smile, and work the brush into a circular motion over the apples of your cheeks. Do it lightly and quickly, because if you press to hard or overdo it, it'll look unappealing (like heavy, dark, cakey, etc.)
Um, you didn't specify anything else so I'll just run through some simple tips:
Eyeshadow:
Light colors highlight your brow bone and/or ball of your eye.
Medium colors are applied all over the lid.
Dark colors are applied on the crease.
Liquid Foundation:
When applying foundation, ONLY cover red spots, dark spots, and other blemishes. Try to avoid covering your whole face.
Powder Foundation:
Apply foundation lightly and moderately AFTER applying liquid foundation. It CAN look cakey if you apply it heavily, so be careful.
Lips:
I like to apply chapstick before doing anything with my lips, to assure my lips are moisturized. It's really simple when you apply lipstick. Just follow your lips natural lip line, and if you want bigger lips (oh gosh, never go too big!) then use a lip liner to extend your lip's line.
That's all I can think of off the top of my head. G'luck.
Best answer!!!
Go to the make up counter. Tell them you want a trial for something Wedding school ball what ever. (someplaces charge so check around)
Then ask questions and watch. what they use and what they do. Other than that call your avon Lady!! samples samples! and cheap makeup to start with!
good luck
Eye Shadow: When applying eye shadow always use a small brush to ensure you put it on correctly. Always put a lighter color in the crease of your eye lid, and a darker shade a little higher above that. Never where blue eyeshadow or a dark green. Also when using dark pink, use it lightly, a red shade never looks good on the eyes.
Mascara: Applying mascara isn't as difficult as some people make it. Start out with a smaller brush, I suggest Clinique mascara, sold at Macy's, Dilliards and at some JCPenny's. If you open your mouth wide while applying mascara your eyes will grow wider so it's easier to apply that mascara. I usually look up when applying my mascara, it makes it easier. Once you have put on your mascara blink a couple of times and if it causes any smudges get a wet wash cloth and carefully get rid of the smudges.
Blush: Blush all depends on your skin tone. If your fair skinned, then use a light pink shade, especially in the spring like now. Using a large, wide brush helps when putting on blush. If you are tan then use a darker blush, pink on tan doesn't look good most of the time. I would apply this with a smaller brush. Also when applying any blush always smile a little bit, it lifts your cheek bones which helps a lot.
Lip Gloss: Use bright pink in the summer or the spring. In the fall or the winter use a color that looks brown in the bottle, but those colors don't really look like that on. When using lip gloss open your mouth for less smudges, also rub your lips together once or twice, but not too many times, or else the lip gloss will wear down and won't be noticeable.
Foundation: Foundation is a complicated make up tool, because everyone has different skin. Since I don't know what you look like I can't tell you what the best foundation for you would be. But, go to your local drug store (Walgreens, CVS Pharmacy, Ect.) and compare their foundations on your skin. Some foundations might look good when you put them on, but go under a florescent light in the store and see if it looks orange. If your just now wearing foundation find one of the foundations that adapt your skin tone. These are the kind you rub until it blends with your skin, these work well.
Hope this helps!I need make-up advice; you know, like how to apply blush and stuff like that. Any advice?
Firstly you have to find colors that suit you.
If your using foundation go for a color that is a tiny bit darker than your natural skin color, then apply dots of it on your chin, nose, cheeks and forehead, make sure your are in good light and smooth over your skin, the light ensures it is even.
Next blush, i use a brown blush that is similar to my foundation, suck in your cheeks and apply the blush lightly to the part just above where your cheek sucks in.
Next would be eyeliner (if your are going to use it) black or brown is usually best, it suits everyone and looks more natural, apply it to the inside part of you bottom lid ( 3/4 of the way to make your eyes look bigger) then thinly over the top of your lashes.
Next apply a eyeshadow that suits your color ( naturals like brown, cream for blue, greens for darker eyes), start from your outer eye and work towards your nose.
Apply black or dark brown mascara, thickly to your lashes without clumping it, so apply it bit by bit, go over them a few times.
and your done
apply gloss to your lips if you want, but with big pretty eyes keep lips simple.I need make-up advice; you know, like how to apply blush and stuff like that. Any advice?
When applying blush, smile, and work the brush into a circular motion over the apples of your cheeks. Do it lightly and quickly, because if you press to hard or overdo it, it'll look unappealing (like heavy, dark, cakey, etc.)
Um, you didn't specify anything else so I'll just run through some simple tips:
Eyeshadow:
Light colors highlight your brow bone and/or ball of your eye.
Medium colors are applied all over the lid.
Dark colors are applied on the crease.
Liquid Foundation:
When applying foundation, ONLY cover red spots, dark spots, and other blemishes. Try to avoid covering your whole face.
Powder Foundation:
Apply foundation lightly and moderately AFTER applying liquid foundation. It CAN look cakey if you apply it heavily, so be careful.
Lips:
I like to apply chapstick before doing anything with my lips, to assure my lips are moisturized. It's really simple when you apply lipstick. Just follow your lips natural lip line, and if you want bigger lips (oh gosh, never go too big!) then use a lip liner to extend your lip's line.
That's all I can think of off the top of my head. G'luck.
Best answer!!!
Go to the make up counter. Tell them you want a trial for something Wedding school ball what ever. (someplaces charge so check around)
Then ask questions and watch. what they use and what they do. Other than that call your avon Lady!! samples samples! and cheap makeup to start with!
good luck
I have lost 20lbs! I need advice on how to lose inches as well.?
I have lost 20lbs in about 3 months but I really havn't lost any inches. I am eating a very strict diet at this time and I have been walking everyday. I get in anywhere between 10,000 and 19,000 steps a day. I would appreciate it if anyone had any ideas on how to lose inches now not just weight (I really need to lose inches in my legs). Thanks!I have lost 20lbs! I need advice on how to lose inches as well.?
Ride ur bike ( if u have 1) for 2 and a half an hour walk for 2 miles and eat healthier food and u will be good as newI have lost 20lbs! I need advice on how to lose inches as well.?
The inches should decrease with the weight.If not,it may be your body structure.Walking that much may be causing you to gain muscle.If you want a more slim look,cut your walking down to just 10,000 steps per day.That is the recommended number for efficient weight loss.Good luck.
There is a book called the ';College Dorm Workout'; by Marta and Joyce Vedral that has the most amazing workout for this. It's fast, easy and all you need is a chair and two 3-5 lb dumbbells. In addition to a fantastic body-shaping workout, the book has all kinds of great info on exercise in general, dietary tips, etc. Get thee to Amazon.com for a used copy and may it be the best .99垄 (plus shipping and handling) you ever spent :)
do you have the 5 a day? when i was a bit over weight (4stone) i did between30-40 excersise everyday, ate five different fruit and veg cut doen on snacks and had 3 set meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner) plus 3 litre of water every day (recommended amount) to flush out any toxins etc. i'm now at a healthy weight. hope this helps
sparky
You have to exercise. Pilates will do the trick.
Ride ur bike ( if u have 1) for 2 and a half an hour walk for 2 miles and eat healthier food and u will be good as newI have lost 20lbs! I need advice on how to lose inches as well.?
The inches should decrease with the weight.If not,it may be your body structure.Walking that much may be causing you to gain muscle.If you want a more slim look,cut your walking down to just 10,000 steps per day.That is the recommended number for efficient weight loss.Good luck.
There is a book called the ';College Dorm Workout'; by Marta and Joyce Vedral that has the most amazing workout for this. It's fast, easy and all you need is a chair and two 3-5 lb dumbbells. In addition to a fantastic body-shaping workout, the book has all kinds of great info on exercise in general, dietary tips, etc. Get thee to Amazon.com for a used copy and may it be the best .99垄 (plus shipping and handling) you ever spent :)
do you have the 5 a day? when i was a bit over weight (4stone) i did between30-40 excersise everyday, ate five different fruit and veg cut doen on snacks and had 3 set meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner) plus 3 litre of water every day (recommended amount) to flush out any toxins etc. i'm now at a healthy weight. hope this helps
sparky
You have to exercise. Pilates will do the trick.
Again more advice on how to get the guy of my dreams?
again i must ask how do i get the guy im in love with and have been in love with scince 3rd grade (im in high school) i try and try to ask but he ignores me it seems like he hates me and wants nothing to do with me.....SO PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO!!!Again more advice on how to get the guy of my dreams?
Leave him alone now you are annoying him.If he wants you he will come to you.Again more advice on how to get the guy of my dreams?
Ignore him and '; act '; like you '; hate'; him, because you should, because he doesn't seem interested....in you!! It' s time for you to '; dream '; up another '; dreamboy '; unless you want your dream to turn into a nightmare!!
Ouch..well it sounds like that's a 1 way feeling.
My suggestion : move on to other guys, if he doesn't like you that much then there's not a lot you can do.
Leave him alone now you are annoying him.If he wants you he will come to you.Again more advice on how to get the guy of my dreams?
Ignore him and '; act '; like you '; hate'; him, because you should, because he doesn't seem interested....in you!! It' s time for you to '; dream '; up another '; dreamboy '; unless you want your dream to turn into a nightmare!!
Ouch..well it sounds like that's a 1 way feeling.
My suggestion : move on to other guys, if he doesn't like you that much then there's not a lot you can do.
I need advice on how to talk to a girl in my school?
I have liked this girl for a while now. She a smart, and nice girl, and i really want to talk to her get to know her and get to be her friend. But i find it very hard to talk to her. i feel like an idiot because i cant find something to say her. Im just to nervous,so what should i do to stop being nervous or atleast talk to a little bit.I need advice on how to talk to a girl in my school?
whenever you see this girl in the hall, compliment her on what she's wearing. tell her you like her shoes, the outfit she's wearing, or maybe even the make up she has on [if she wears makeup]. then you can be like, ';wow, where did you get that??? ive been looking all over!!!!'; then slowly, juss start talking to her.
hope this helps.... ^.^I need advice on how to talk to a girl in my school?
When u go to her...you only have to think how wonderful your life will be with her....
the words come easy if u r going with your way...
i was in the same situation and took me too long to speak but it worth the wait...
u have a chance,what u fell is unique...express it...but only in your way...your plan...
let her enter in your world and shake it!
whenever you see this girl in the hall, compliment her on what she's wearing. tell her you like her shoes, the outfit she's wearing, or maybe even the make up she has on [if she wears makeup]. then you can be like, ';wow, where did you get that??? ive been looking all over!!!!'; then slowly, juss start talking to her.
hope this helps.... ^.^I need advice on how to talk to a girl in my school?
When u go to her...you only have to think how wonderful your life will be with her....
the words come easy if u r going with your way...
i was in the same situation and took me too long to speak but it worth the wait...
u have a chance,what u fell is unique...express it...but only in your way...your plan...
let her enter in your world and shake it!
ADVICE: how do you get over somebody cheating on you if you have decided to stay with them?
my other half cheated on me by kissing somebody else. Now they know what they want and say its me and it was just a mistake and is so sorry... can I trust again or what must I demand for the future to make me fell ok until I forgive againADVICE: how do you get over somebody cheating on you if you have decided to stay with them?
I'm not speaking from experience, just common sense. If you've decided to stay together, you have to rebuild a trusting relationship, not make demands.
It will take time to rebuild that trust and you may not be able to do it.ADVICE: how do you get over somebody cheating on you if you have decided to stay with them?
You cant demand any thing if your going to forgive her just for give and move on if you want to demand she do stuff/something than you don't forgive he. just forgive don't forget that's all that's to it don't stay with her if you cant forgive let her go and you find someone new. its very Loving of you to forgive so just do what you said and forgive that's it and that's all
You should never demand anything in return. The only thing you should do is ask them to make sure they are being honest with themselves in wanting to be with you. If they are then you must simply accept that they have chosen you and be happy with that fact.skin
I'm not speaking from experience, just common sense. If you've decided to stay together, you have to rebuild a trusting relationship, not make demands.
It will take time to rebuild that trust and you may not be able to do it.ADVICE: how do you get over somebody cheating on you if you have decided to stay with them?
You cant demand any thing if your going to forgive her just for give and move on if you want to demand she do stuff/something than you don't forgive he. just forgive don't forget that's all that's to it don't stay with her if you cant forgive let her go and you find someone new. its very Loving of you to forgive so just do what you said and forgive that's it and that's all
You should never demand anything in return. The only thing you should do is ask them to make sure they are being honest with themselves in wanting to be with you. If they are then you must simply accept that they have chosen you and be happy with that fact.
How hard is it to write a book? I need advice!?
I have written down ideas and have a basic idea. I have been living and working in Asia for years and want to pull stuff together from my blogs and thoughts and make a fictional story. Would you read it?How hard is it to write a book? I need advice!?
Believe me, it is easier to write a book [where neither its length nor its contents, are limitations], than to write a story - which, obviously has constraints about its length and content !
A good story, to be impactful, must have limited characters, and also focus on only one incident or reaction. Since you plan to 'pull stuff together from your blogs and thoughts', these should perhaps be best planned as a volume of several short stories.
...One the other hand, if you plan one long tale of intertwining incidents populated with real-life characters you've known, only then you should think of writing a novel !
Do not ever think of your novel as one 450-page task to complete :
...Since you have already organised your ideas of the basic story-line, begin by picking any one random idea and writing whatever comes to your mind. Then simply lay it aside !
...When next you get the writing itch, pick another one of your ideas, and repeat your earlier modus operandum - until, several writing sessions later, you have covered all the ideas in your list..
...Only now should you arrange what all you wrote in chronological, or sequential order, and then read them for a second time : That is when your subconscious will tell you of (i) how these can be linked, or patched together, into one novel, or (ii) how these would actually have a lot better impact as separate short stories, in just the way you have written !
...After that, you can edit your own work to the required format - or hire some professional editor to handle that (very boring and tiring) part.
Voila ! Your manuscript is now ready to knock at some publisher's doors !
And when [not if !] it gets published, Kitty the Kid will definitely buy a copy and read it from cover to cover ! Promise.
Best of Luck, friend.How hard is it to write a book? I need advice!?
Yes, I would read it. I like the idea of sharing experiences and thoughts.
I think writing isn麓t that hard. Just write what comes up to your mind.
get SOME ONE WITH A DEGREE IN ENGLISH TO HELP YOU OUT!
I WOULD READ IT!
EVER HAVE SOME COLLEGE TIME?
IF NOT YOU SHOULD!
COOL?
OK!
Writing it is a piece of cake.
Getting the thing published is a NIGHTMARE!
I wish you the very best of luck.
Anyone can write a book.
The hard part is getting it published.
You can write a book and have it published so long as you have a few thousand dollards to spend on it; and hope it sells.
If you want a publisher to buy your book, you're going to have to do more than just ';stuff together blogs and thoughts,'; Tolstoy *L*
first...u need a good plot....a good basics of literature....good solid characters...twists...not too draggy....and a little bit of romance or joke in it...that should help...
It's a lot harder to write a book than most people realize. It takes more than just imagination. You have to spend weeks just planning out the plot. In addition, you have to worry about things like continuity of the story, character motivation, etc.
You can't just write down a series of events and call that a story. It would never be published.
As a writer myself (ableit of non-fiction), I might be able to help. If nothing else, I can point you to a few sites on the Internet that can help. You can contact me through my profile.
Its not hard at all you just have to have a good imagination.
NOT VERY DIFFICULT ALL YOU NEED A GOOD IDEA
Believe me, it is easier to write a book [where neither its length nor its contents, are limitations], than to write a story - which, obviously has constraints about its length and content !
A good story, to be impactful, must have limited characters, and also focus on only one incident or reaction. Since you plan to 'pull stuff together from your blogs and thoughts', these should perhaps be best planned as a volume of several short stories.
...One the other hand, if you plan one long tale of intertwining incidents populated with real-life characters you've known, only then you should think of writing a novel !
Do not ever think of your novel as one 450-page task to complete :
...Since you have already organised your ideas of the basic story-line, begin by picking any one random idea and writing whatever comes to your mind. Then simply lay it aside !
...When next you get the writing itch, pick another one of your ideas, and repeat your earlier modus operandum - until, several writing sessions later, you have covered all the ideas in your list..
...Only now should you arrange what all you wrote in chronological, or sequential order, and then read them for a second time : That is when your subconscious will tell you of (i) how these can be linked, or patched together, into one novel, or (ii) how these would actually have a lot better impact as separate short stories, in just the way you have written !
...After that, you can edit your own work to the required format - or hire some professional editor to handle that (very boring and tiring) part.
Voila ! Your manuscript is now ready to knock at some publisher's doors !
And when [not if !] it gets published, Kitty the Kid will definitely buy a copy and read it from cover to cover ! Promise.
Best of Luck, friend.How hard is it to write a book? I need advice!?
Yes, I would read it. I like the idea of sharing experiences and thoughts.
I think writing isn麓t that hard. Just write what comes up to your mind.
get SOME ONE WITH A DEGREE IN ENGLISH TO HELP YOU OUT!
I WOULD READ IT!
EVER HAVE SOME COLLEGE TIME?
IF NOT YOU SHOULD!
COOL?
OK!
Writing it is a piece of cake.
Getting the thing published is a NIGHTMARE!
I wish you the very best of luck.
Anyone can write a book.
The hard part is getting it published.
You can write a book and have it published so long as you have a few thousand dollards to spend on it; and hope it sells.
If you want a publisher to buy your book, you're going to have to do more than just ';stuff together blogs and thoughts,'; Tolstoy *L*
first...u need a good plot....a good basics of literature....good solid characters...twists...not too draggy....and a little bit of romance or joke in it...that should help...
It's a lot harder to write a book than most people realize. It takes more than just imagination. You have to spend weeks just planning out the plot. In addition, you have to worry about things like continuity of the story, character motivation, etc.
You can't just write down a series of events and call that a story. It would never be published.
As a writer myself (ableit of non-fiction), I might be able to help. If nothing else, I can point you to a few sites on the Internet that can help. You can contact me through my profile.
Its not hard at all you just have to have a good imagination.
NOT VERY DIFFICULT ALL YOU NEED A GOOD IDEA
Give me advice on how to loose weight?
Right ...
I am 15 year old and i am skinny but lately i have been at the urge to eat constantly junk food biscuits, chocolate exc and it is realy starting to show on my body i aint fat but ive put on weight i dont no what to do ive tried going on a diet but i am still eating on the sly and am sick of it please tell me what i can do to be 8 stone againGive me advice on how to loose weight?
do a really fun activity, eat that 'call jenny' stuff where you eat more and loose weight. It sounds like you dont need to lose weight you said your skinny yourself but thats YOUR decision if you want to loose a little weight though
I am 15 year old and i am skinny but lately i have been at the urge to eat constantly junk food biscuits, chocolate exc and it is realy starting to show on my body i aint fat but ive put on weight i dont no what to do ive tried going on a diet but i am still eating on the sly and am sick of it please tell me what i can do to be 8 stone againGive me advice on how to loose weight?
do a really fun activity, eat that 'call jenny' stuff where you eat more and loose weight. It sounds like you dont need to lose weight you said your skinny yourself but thats YOUR decision if you want to loose a little weight though
I need advice on how to tell my mom about my tattoo before our vacation to FL in the summer.....?
I'm 16 and I have been with my boyfriend for a year (in June/July) and a few months ago I got his name tattooed on my chest. Then, I decided to add a cute design around it, but it ended up being way too big for the chest area it was on so I am removing it with Tattoo-Off (though that can take 6 months to another year and I just started the treatment). Anyways, I also got the same design I had on my chest tattooed on my upper middle back when I decided to remove the chest tattoo. Luckily, the tattoo on my back looks a lot better than my chest one and I don't mind the one on my back either because it's easier to cover up. Problem is, his family doesn't believe in tattoos and I recently went on vacation for spring break with his family and had to cover up the whole time. I don't want the same thing to happen on my vacation with my mom. That's where the need for advice comes in. How do I explain to her I have 2 tattoos, even if I am in the process of removing the chest one? Thanks.I need advice on how to tell my mom about my tattoo before our vacation to FL in the summer.....?
dam you really are f*** up god help you
just tell her the 100 percent truth exactly as it is because they will respect you more for thatI need advice on how to tell my mom about my tattoo before our vacation to FL in the summer.....?
Hmmm . . . I'd tell my mum I got drunk and didnt remember a thing until I looked in the mirror the next morning!
Getting a tattoo of a boys name, at your age, was a stupid thing to do.
You got his name tatooed on your chest?
You're sixteen?
Your parents are gonna be pissed.
Just let them find out when you're at the beach.
Well, your first mistake was putting his name in the equation! My daughter did that and regreted it after she married him and it lasted 8 months. Now her new husband has to look at it everday. Just tell her, mom, i've done this and get it over with. My younger daughter also got one early in her life, and the top she wore showed it to me. Heck - what can she say, at least she did not have to pay for them.
I would break it to my mom calmly not rush in to it if i were u and also i wold start talking about something else then go in to that subject.like say what if i got a tattoo would u be mad?
Start talking about something else then go in to that subject.
First Say ';Mom, I love you';
Than
tell her ';Mom, If I got a tatoo would you get mad';
Girl, prepare for the worst. I know if my daughter did something like that for a guy, I would let her have it by taking away allowance, no going out, no phone, and I can keep going. The problem is you are a minor and you are still under mom and dad's orders. Just come clean because you cannot undo the past. If you had an idea of what her reaction may be, why did you still do it? Obviously you do not care so do not play the role of pityness. Be a big girl and sit one on one with your mom and tell her that whatever the consequences are you will live up to them. Oh and dont say I am sorry, because that would be totally fake. You cannot put something like this on a gold platter.
at 16 that is not going to be very easy.....good luck with that one!!
If my daughter got a NAME of her bf tatooed on her anywhere I would kick her azz!!
I had a tatoo when i was 16...., I lied about my age and all that mess......my Mom almost sued them....but i know now at 21 that it was the stupidest thing I could have ever done because at 16 I was too young to be putting something on my body that was going to be there 4 the rest of my life....now i cover it up just because i know it is stupid!!! I got busted but there is not too much they can do about it.....but I also wasnt dumb enough to get someones name on me.............
hehe, jsut dont.
you can convince her that it's a cool style and a body decoration.
Be honest and upfront. Tell her before she finds out herself. That would make the problem much worse. Try telling her in a letter and explaining the situation. That way she can't interupt before she finds out your entire story. Express how much you love her and things should go a little easier. I would expect some bumps along the way though. Just be calm and don't raise your voice or get angry because that will only make it worse. Good luck.
u should talk to her alone one time and tell her
Just talk to her. Tell her what you feel about this situation and let her know you value her concerns.
just tell her
I suggest you tell her when you (a) go away to college or (b) move out. Keep your shirt on while on vacation girl. Tank tops with bikini bottoms are fine if the tank tops cover the tattoo. Change clothes in the bathroom with the door locked and shower with the door locked.
No good way but to sit down with her and tell her the truth. I'm sure she'll be unhappy with you but will get over it. She does love you and only wants the best for you. You are very young to get a tattoo especially of a boy's name. I wonder will your husband like to see it on your body? You have a lot of maturing to do and will most likely have a few more boyfriends before Mr. Right comes along. Never put a name on your body, sometimes a blank canvass is best. All the best to you.
A persons name on your chest? Are you crazy or what? And how did you get a tattoo if you are under 18?
Better hope yall dont break up!!!
Gettin a tattoo wid his name.......
thats was probably da biggest mistake u'll ever make wid a guy girl!!! i smart enough to do dat!!!
well i dont know but u should tell her the night before you guys leave on ur vaction dat way u wont have to stay home....
but still u should have gotten matching tattoos but not his name!!!! o an GOOD LUCK WID UR MOM!!! ^_^
If your family doesn't believe in tattoos then just tell her she might get mad but remember life goes on once the tattoo removing is over your mom will {might} forget about it. If she holds i grudge then shes not a good mom you live to forget
Why not simply tell the truth?
Just be honest. Tell her that you do have 2 tattoos, but you are safely removing one.
OK YOU ARE CRAZY CRAZY CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
crazy coz:
1- you got a tattoo when you are *16*!
2- you got a tattoo with your bf name!!
3 is coz your mom is going to KILL you for being to0o0 crazy!!!
GO0O0O0O0D LUCK ON THAT PROB
(your question is to CRAZY to answer)
beast of luck to you :)
dam you really are f*** up god help you
just tell her the 100 percent truth exactly as it is because they will respect you more for thatI need advice on how to tell my mom about my tattoo before our vacation to FL in the summer.....?
Hmmm . . . I'd tell my mum I got drunk and didnt remember a thing until I looked in the mirror the next morning!
Getting a tattoo of a boys name, at your age, was a stupid thing to do.
You got his name tatooed on your chest?
You're sixteen?
Your parents are gonna be pissed.
Just let them find out when you're at the beach.
Well, your first mistake was putting his name in the equation! My daughter did that and regreted it after she married him and it lasted 8 months. Now her new husband has to look at it everday. Just tell her, mom, i've done this and get it over with. My younger daughter also got one early in her life, and the top she wore showed it to me. Heck - what can she say, at least she did not have to pay for them.
I would break it to my mom calmly not rush in to it if i were u and also i wold start talking about something else then go in to that subject.like say what if i got a tattoo would u be mad?
Start talking about something else then go in to that subject.
First Say ';Mom, I love you';
Than
tell her ';Mom, If I got a tatoo would you get mad';
Girl, prepare for the worst. I know if my daughter did something like that for a guy, I would let her have it by taking away allowance, no going out, no phone, and I can keep going. The problem is you are a minor and you are still under mom and dad's orders. Just come clean because you cannot undo the past. If you had an idea of what her reaction may be, why did you still do it? Obviously you do not care so do not play the role of pityness. Be a big girl and sit one on one with your mom and tell her that whatever the consequences are you will live up to them. Oh and dont say I am sorry, because that would be totally fake. You cannot put something like this on a gold platter.
at 16 that is not going to be very easy.....good luck with that one!!
If my daughter got a NAME of her bf tatooed on her anywhere I would kick her azz!!
I had a tatoo when i was 16...., I lied about my age and all that mess......my Mom almost sued them....but i know now at 21 that it was the stupidest thing I could have ever done because at 16 I was too young to be putting something on my body that was going to be there 4 the rest of my life....now i cover it up just because i know it is stupid!!! I got busted but there is not too much they can do about it.....but I also wasnt dumb enough to get someones name on me.............
hehe, jsut dont.
you can convince her that it's a cool style and a body decoration.
Be honest and upfront. Tell her before she finds out herself. That would make the problem much worse. Try telling her in a letter and explaining the situation. That way she can't interupt before she finds out your entire story. Express how much you love her and things should go a little easier. I would expect some bumps along the way though. Just be calm and don't raise your voice or get angry because that will only make it worse. Good luck.
u should talk to her alone one time and tell her
Just talk to her. Tell her what you feel about this situation and let her know you value her concerns.
just tell her
I suggest you tell her when you (a) go away to college or (b) move out. Keep your shirt on while on vacation girl. Tank tops with bikini bottoms are fine if the tank tops cover the tattoo. Change clothes in the bathroom with the door locked and shower with the door locked.
No good way but to sit down with her and tell her the truth. I'm sure she'll be unhappy with you but will get over it. She does love you and only wants the best for you. You are very young to get a tattoo especially of a boy's name. I wonder will your husband like to see it on your body? You have a lot of maturing to do and will most likely have a few more boyfriends before Mr. Right comes along. Never put a name on your body, sometimes a blank canvass is best. All the best to you.
A persons name on your chest? Are you crazy or what? And how did you get a tattoo if you are under 18?
Better hope yall dont break up!!!
Gettin a tattoo wid his name.......
thats was probably da biggest mistake u'll ever make wid a guy girl!!! i smart enough to do dat!!!
well i dont know but u should tell her the night before you guys leave on ur vaction dat way u wont have to stay home....
but still u should have gotten matching tattoos but not his name!!!! o an GOOD LUCK WID UR MOM!!! ^_^
If your family doesn't believe in tattoos then just tell her she might get mad but remember life goes on once the tattoo removing is over your mom will {might} forget about it. If she holds i grudge then shes not a good mom you live to forget
Why not simply tell the truth?
Just be honest. Tell her that you do have 2 tattoos, but you are safely removing one.
OK YOU ARE CRAZY CRAZY CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
crazy coz:
1- you got a tattoo when you are *16*!
2- you got a tattoo with your bf name!!
3 is coz your mom is going to KILL you for being to0o0 crazy!!!
GO0O0O0O0D LUCK ON THAT PROB
(your question is to CRAZY to answer)
beast of luck to you :)
I gained some weight n need advice on how to lose 10 pounds plzzz... is tere anythin out tere i can take?
Take a look at this website, http://www.squidoo.com/fatlossquickly . I hope that helps!
I need advice on how to get rid of credit card debt.?
i have like 5 credit cards and half of them are nearly maxed out. i want to cut the balances down and then get rid or all but 1. how do i do it?I need advice on how to get rid of credit card debt.?
work on paying one card down. take the one with the highest amount due each month and cut that one down. then go on to the next one.I need advice on how to get rid of credit card debt.?
Do what ever you have to do to increase your payments. If it means getting a second, or third job, do it. There's no reason to have more than 2 cards.
Talk to a debt consolidation firm. They helped me a great deal.
Cut them up and start paying more than the monthly minimum. If you want to pay them all off within one year, divide the total of each credit card by 12 and pay that much each month. It will probably take 15+ months to pay them all off because of the interest but the most important thing is to not incur any more debt.
hey dearie, gu morning....I woke up and saw your question,,,last night I was reading a lot about this resource, it tackled your situation too.....almost the same...just look thru the contents
all d best!
My advice is good only if you are enough discipline to pay balances down by yourself. Credit counseling services will ruin your credit for a long time. You should be able to put a side at least $100.00 monthly while paying your minimum requirements on cards and other obligations. This $100.00 you will add to pay down the balance on the card with the highest interest (NOT HIGHEST BALANCE) until the balance is completely paid off. Every month you will save the most in your financial charges. Add this saving amount to your next payment along with initial amount of $100.00. For example:
Minimum required payment is $50.00
1 month payment: 50+100= $150. It will save you 5 bucks in interest charges.
2 month: 50+100+5= $155, save additional 8 bucks
3 month: 50+100+5+8 = 163
This is an example. Calculate your savings based on actual statements. Continue with this order and you will see how easy the balance will go down. Now, assume that your last payment on this card totals $300.00. You start paying next card with highest interest. Your minimum is the same, but now you are adding 300 bucks plus monthly savings. Your card will be paid off in a few months. Next card you will start with $500.00 additional payment and all your debts will be wiped out at no time.
Last advice: If you care about your credit score, keep and manage right not less than 2 - 3 credit cards. I will skip explanation. That was not your question.
The only way to do this and not have an adverse affect on your credit report is to do the following:
find some extra work
pay off as much as you can, as quickly as you can.
put away the cards (freeze them in an ice tray if you have to)
sell stuff you don't need to raise $$$$
Going for debt consolidation or counceling will not get you out of debt, they will tell you the same thing, make more and pay more.
Avoid credit repair agencies that charge a fee to improve your FICO score by removing negative, but accurate, information from your credit reports. No one can force credit reporting agencies or lenders to remove accurate information from a credit report. Credit repair companies often take your money without delivering what they promise, or provide only temporary improvements of your score, sometimes by removing accurate information that will reappear later.
I agree with going to debt consolidation place. This way, they can assist you in decreasing the total amount.
Keep the credit card with the longest history ... it will establish credit history which will be good in the long term.
Also, having more than 2 credit cards wasn't the smartest but I know hard times come and it's a whole lot easier to open a credit card than to work for the money.
first of all, cut them all off. start calling ur credit card company for annual fee refund if u r already charged.Each month start paying the minimum installment, if u think that your salary can't survive. But if u think u have enough ,pay more to get rid of the debt as soon as possible.minimize going out and buying things u don't need for month or two, just to avoid extra expences.......and soon ur cards will be paid off , one by one.
good luck
Rule #1: Quit charging.
Rule #2: You must make monthly payments significantly above the ';muinimum required'; payment. That is the only way to bring the balances down.
stop spending
The obvious thing would be to simply pay them off. However, if that is not feasible, you need to try to consolidate them into few cards. Figure out which cards have the lowest interest rates and transfer other higher rate balances to that card. Also.. you should concentrate on paying more money to the cards with higher rates as those balances will multiply faster than the others. Also, you should put your focus on one card at a time. Obviously continue to pay what you can on the others, but put all your extra money toward the same card. When it is pay off... CLOSE the account and shred the card. Do this until you are down to your last card that you are planning to keep. Good luck. Credit cards can be such trap!
Do NOT go to a debt consolidation company unless it is truly and completely your LAST resort. People do not realize that it impacts your credit almost as badly as bankruptcy. Those places can help you get out of debt but so can bankruptcy. You'll just never be able to buy anything again (like a house or a car at a reasonable interest rate).
Pay them off.
work on paying one card down. take the one with the highest amount due each month and cut that one down. then go on to the next one.I need advice on how to get rid of credit card debt.?
Do what ever you have to do to increase your payments. If it means getting a second, or third job, do it. There's no reason to have more than 2 cards.
Talk to a debt consolidation firm. They helped me a great deal.
Cut them up and start paying more than the monthly minimum. If you want to pay them all off within one year, divide the total of each credit card by 12 and pay that much each month. It will probably take 15+ months to pay them all off because of the interest but the most important thing is to not incur any more debt.
hey dearie, gu morning....I woke up and saw your question,,,last night I was reading a lot about this resource, it tackled your situation too.....almost the same...just look thru the contents
all d best!
My advice is good only if you are enough discipline to pay balances down by yourself. Credit counseling services will ruin your credit for a long time. You should be able to put a side at least $100.00 monthly while paying your minimum requirements on cards and other obligations. This $100.00 you will add to pay down the balance on the card with the highest interest (NOT HIGHEST BALANCE) until the balance is completely paid off. Every month you will save the most in your financial charges. Add this saving amount to your next payment along with initial amount of $100.00. For example:
Minimum required payment is $50.00
1 month payment: 50+100= $150. It will save you 5 bucks in interest charges.
2 month: 50+100+5= $155, save additional 8 bucks
3 month: 50+100+5+8 = 163
This is an example. Calculate your savings based on actual statements. Continue with this order and you will see how easy the balance will go down. Now, assume that your last payment on this card totals $300.00. You start paying next card with highest interest. Your minimum is the same, but now you are adding 300 bucks plus monthly savings. Your card will be paid off in a few months. Next card you will start with $500.00 additional payment and all your debts will be wiped out at no time.
Last advice: If you care about your credit score, keep and manage right not less than 2 - 3 credit cards. I will skip explanation. That was not your question.
The only way to do this and not have an adverse affect on your credit report is to do the following:
find some extra work
pay off as much as you can, as quickly as you can.
put away the cards (freeze them in an ice tray if you have to)
sell stuff you don't need to raise $$$$
Going for debt consolidation or counceling will not get you out of debt, they will tell you the same thing, make more and pay more.
Avoid credit repair agencies that charge a fee to improve your FICO score by removing negative, but accurate, information from your credit reports. No one can force credit reporting agencies or lenders to remove accurate information from a credit report. Credit repair companies often take your money without delivering what they promise, or provide only temporary improvements of your score, sometimes by removing accurate information that will reappear later.
I agree with going to debt consolidation place. This way, they can assist you in decreasing the total amount.
Keep the credit card with the longest history ... it will establish credit history which will be good in the long term.
Also, having more than 2 credit cards wasn't the smartest but I know hard times come and it's a whole lot easier to open a credit card than to work for the money.
first of all, cut them all off. start calling ur credit card company for annual fee refund if u r already charged.Each month start paying the minimum installment, if u think that your salary can't survive. But if u think u have enough ,pay more to get rid of the debt as soon as possible.minimize going out and buying things u don't need for month or two, just to avoid extra expences.......and soon ur cards will be paid off , one by one.
good luck
Rule #1: Quit charging.
Rule #2: You must make monthly payments significantly above the ';muinimum required'; payment. That is the only way to bring the balances down.
stop spending
The obvious thing would be to simply pay them off. However, if that is not feasible, you need to try to consolidate them into few cards. Figure out which cards have the lowest interest rates and transfer other higher rate balances to that card. Also.. you should concentrate on paying more money to the cards with higher rates as those balances will multiply faster than the others. Also, you should put your focus on one card at a time. Obviously continue to pay what you can on the others, but put all your extra money toward the same card. When it is pay off... CLOSE the account and shred the card. Do this until you are down to your last card that you are planning to keep. Good luck. Credit cards can be such trap!
Do NOT go to a debt consolidation company unless it is truly and completely your LAST resort. People do not realize that it impacts your credit almost as badly as bankruptcy. Those places can help you get out of debt but so can bankruptcy. You'll just never be able to buy anything again (like a house or a car at a reasonable interest rate).
Pay them off.
Advice, how to accept penis size?
Hi, i am a 155lb 21 year old hispanic and i need anything to help my accept my small penis and get my confidence up. Ive been told my penis is ';cute';, which means small, which makes me wish i were a woman everyday of my life.Advice, how to accept penis size?
well,,, look on the bright side... you can always be a great bottom ;-)Advice, how to accept penis size?
Quit obsessing over your size as all this will do is depress you!
What you need to do is learn how to get the most out of what you do have! Learn some techniques that will please your partners, like oral or manual stimulation and positions that favor enhanced stimulation! If you can satisfy your partners, they will be pleased and will come back for more!
Remember this too, a desirable outgoing personality is also very attractive! And if you are depressed cause you are obsessing over the size of your penis, people will only see you as moody and sullen, and that is not very attractive.
Didn't say how big it was, so how can we answer? I've seen guys with 7 inchers worrying about size. Average adult penis size for 76% of all males is 5.4 to 6.2 inches. Only 12 percent are larger than 6.2 inches and only 12 percent are smaller than 5.4 so if you are in the average size range, well, you are perfectly fine and normal. Even if a bit smaller, so what, the vagina adapts to the penis size and length. Don't sell yourself short.
You just do. Everyone isn't born with a big one, and at the end of the day, it depends on how you please a girl with what you have. If you really wish to be a female, then there are deeper problems within yourself.
Trust it's not the size, it's how you use it MuHHH.......so you better start finding ways to use it better, also learn new things tricks to use with your penis........Did you know you had a tongue, and fingers?
I wouldn't worry about it. The girl saying it was 'cute' wasn't necessarily saying it was small. She was trying to insult you and make you feel bad about yourself.
Go to therapy.
oh comon dude it cant be that small , its no the size that counts.
good things come in small packages. (no homo)
and its not the size that matters, its how you use it.
Hang a brick off of it one hour every night before you go to bed
tell the ho her p*ssy is too big
jk, cute doesnt mean lil, dont worry bout itskin
well,,, look on the bright side... you can always be a great bottom ;-)Advice, how to accept penis size?
Quit obsessing over your size as all this will do is depress you!
What you need to do is learn how to get the most out of what you do have! Learn some techniques that will please your partners, like oral or manual stimulation and positions that favor enhanced stimulation! If you can satisfy your partners, they will be pleased and will come back for more!
Remember this too, a desirable outgoing personality is also very attractive! And if you are depressed cause you are obsessing over the size of your penis, people will only see you as moody and sullen, and that is not very attractive.
Didn't say how big it was, so how can we answer? I've seen guys with 7 inchers worrying about size. Average adult penis size for 76% of all males is 5.4 to 6.2 inches. Only 12 percent are larger than 6.2 inches and only 12 percent are smaller than 5.4 so if you are in the average size range, well, you are perfectly fine and normal. Even if a bit smaller, so what, the vagina adapts to the penis size and length. Don't sell yourself short.
You just do. Everyone isn't born with a big one, and at the end of the day, it depends on how you please a girl with what you have. If you really wish to be a female, then there are deeper problems within yourself.
Trust it's not the size, it's how you use it MuHHH.......so you better start finding ways to use it better, also learn new things tricks to use with your penis........Did you know you had a tongue, and fingers?
I wouldn't worry about it. The girl saying it was 'cute' wasn't necessarily saying it was small. She was trying to insult you and make you feel bad about yourself.
Go to therapy.
oh comon dude it cant be that small , its no the size that counts.
good things come in small packages. (no homo)
and its not the size that matters, its how you use it.
Hang a brick off of it one hour every night before you go to bed
tell the ho her p*ssy is too big
jk, cute doesnt mean lil, dont worry bout it
Can someone please explain to me how a person you date is so selfish yet online they give nice advice?
it's easy for someone to answer another persons questions
it's harder for someone to see the reality of the situation they're in themselvesCan someone please explain to me how a person you date is so selfish yet online they give nice advice?
Its best if you get to know the person outside of being online. You can pretend to be whoever online since no one can see you through the computer. However, in real life, he/she can be a totally different person. Perhaps the things he says online can come from somewhere else and its not really him. Look, if you hang with a person outside of the computer, you can see what type of person he truly is and can judge whether you really like this person or not.Can someone please explain to me how a person you date is so selfish yet online they give nice advice?
l would not be hanging around with this person if he is selfish...in reality.
On line he sounds to be taking on a false personality.
lt's true what they say....you really have to know someone...in the flesh.
it's harder for someone to see the reality of the situation they're in themselvesCan someone please explain to me how a person you date is so selfish yet online they give nice advice?
Its best if you get to know the person outside of being online. You can pretend to be whoever online since no one can see you through the computer. However, in real life, he/she can be a totally different person. Perhaps the things he says online can come from somewhere else and its not really him. Look, if you hang with a person outside of the computer, you can see what type of person he truly is and can judge whether you really like this person or not.Can someone please explain to me how a person you date is so selfish yet online they give nice advice?
l would not be hanging around with this person if he is selfish...in reality.
On line he sounds to be taking on a false personality.
lt's true what they say....you really have to know someone...in the flesh.
I met a conman. We knew one another but he still at large not going to return my money.Pls advice how to deal?
put his face on the net under BEWARE!!!!!!!I met a conman. We knew one another but he still at large not going to return my money.Pls advice how to deal?
Same as Missy210...
Money is not important in life... its the leasson you learn in the process of life that is important...
Consider that he may have lent you this money in your previous incarnation... and You have returned it to him in this incarnation.. thereby nullifying your debt.
So... Celebrate... and feel happy about it... instead of feeling hurt...
Everything in life is not in our control...I met a conman. We knew one another but he still at large not going to return my money.Pls advice how to deal?
Report him to the authorities. You probably won't be seeing your money even if he is caught, so it would be just to try and forget about this terrible situation and get on with your life. In the future try to be more cautious about the kind people you let into your life.
Count your blessings that he didn't hurt you in the process and move on!
Call the police.
Same as Missy210...
Money is not important in life... its the leasson you learn in the process of life that is important...
Consider that he may have lent you this money in your previous incarnation... and You have returned it to him in this incarnation.. thereby nullifying your debt.
So... Celebrate... and feel happy about it... instead of feeling hurt...
Everything in life is not in our control...I met a conman. We knew one another but he still at large not going to return my money.Pls advice how to deal?
Report him to the authorities. You probably won't be seeing your money even if he is caught, so it would be just to try and forget about this terrible situation and get on with your life. In the future try to be more cautious about the kind people you let into your life.
Count your blessings that he didn't hurt you in the process and move on!
Call the police.
Need help and advice How to freak/grind dance?
how do you do it...im not very good at dancing but i wanna freak at my next dance technique?? how to get better at it?Need help and advice How to freak/grind dance?
There is a simple way to do it. For a guy it's quite easy.
Just stand behind the girl. Put your hands on her waist or hips (depending on how comfertable you feel with her.) If you are way taller than her, bend your knees a bit. Have your feet spread a little bit apart. As for the actual dancing, just move your knees. Not your hips. When you move your knees, your hips follow, and it looks a lot better. Just do this following the beat, and moving the same way as the girl.
The best way to learn how to do this is - no joke - practice by yourself listening to a good dancing song. SexyBack is a good one because it has a constant beat that never slows down. Doing this will get you good enough that you won't look like a total idiot on the dancefloor, then once you start dancing, you'll get even better.
Most importantly, be confident. Don't look really awkward or uncomfortable or this WILL be extremely awkward. If you're having fun, smile a little bit. Just be calm and loose and you'll do great.Need help and advice How to freak/grind dance?
...so basically if you've had sex before, you know how...duh
if you're a girl, it's all in the hips. if you have no rhythm, that's a little tough. if you're a guy...that's weird.
How about watching music videos and imitate what u see. Practice makes perfect! Just learn to love your body, touch it alot and move your hips slooooooooowly.
There is no specific way to do it you just go out there and act like you know what you're doing and try 2 make it look good.
There is a simple way to do it. For a guy it's quite easy.
Just stand behind the girl. Put your hands on her waist or hips (depending on how comfertable you feel with her.) If you are way taller than her, bend your knees a bit. Have your feet spread a little bit apart. As for the actual dancing, just move your knees. Not your hips. When you move your knees, your hips follow, and it looks a lot better. Just do this following the beat, and moving the same way as the girl.
The best way to learn how to do this is - no joke - practice by yourself listening to a good dancing song. SexyBack is a good one because it has a constant beat that never slows down. Doing this will get you good enough that you won't look like a total idiot on the dancefloor, then once you start dancing, you'll get even better.
Most importantly, be confident. Don't look really awkward or uncomfortable or this WILL be extremely awkward. If you're having fun, smile a little bit. Just be calm and loose and you'll do great.Need help and advice How to freak/grind dance?
...so basically if you've had sex before, you know how...duh
if you're a girl, it's all in the hips. if you have no rhythm, that's a little tough. if you're a guy...that's weird.
How about watching music videos and imitate what u see. Practice makes perfect! Just learn to love your body, touch it alot and move your hips slooooooooowly.
There is no specific way to do it you just go out there and act like you know what you're doing and try 2 make it look good.
HELP!!! I need some good advice on how,when,and where to kiss my girlfriend for the first time.?
im a 12 year old boy and my girlfriend is also 12.We've been going ot for about a month now.Shes so sweet.She loves it when i put my arm around her and cuddle.So i need some good advice on how,when,and where to kiss her for the first time.Where going to the movies this Monday.PLZ HELP!!!HELP!!! I need some good advice on how,when,and where to kiss my girlfriend for the first time.?
ewwwwwwww you are so young and you have a gf eww grose you shold be a sham of your self tha is no good to kiss girls at your age no good you shold ask you mom or dad abote that p.s. no fenceHELP!!! I need some good advice on how,when,and where to kiss my girlfriend for the first time.?
walk her home from school, on a rainy day......that would be the best time to kiss her, tell that she is pretty and that she means the world to you! thats what all girls want to hear!
be different and wait till u get married to kiss someone for ur first time. i am and my gf loves me very much for it.
Firstly, what would be the purpose of kissing. You are too young to be kissing. And, if you truly loved and respected your girlfriend, you would wait until you are much older to be kissing. Your parents are letting you go out to the movies with her alone? You are too young to be dating, much less trying to find out places to kiss your girl. Respect her and wait until she is older.
You could give her a peck on the cheek when you take her home after the movies
have you meant her dad?
if it goes beyond a kiss you might......lol
kiss her on her cheek for the next 5yrs.....lol
you're at the mall, she say something cute, and you both laugh, then you just stop, take her by her arm [gently] when she turn to you, you say, thanks for being so special. then you just tilt your head and [quickly] lightly kiss her lips. and i mean lightly. then you both go on as you were.
have fun....second through don't ......lol
While your watching the movie, and you have you arm around her and she has her head on you shoulder. Tilt her head up and lightly kiss her. Try this during a sweet or romantic time during the movie. Don't make out with her unless she kisses you back and it just seems right.
awww how cute.
just when the moments right and your have your arm around her and you can tell she really comfortable and likes being close to you look down and if she doesnt look up slowly put your hand on her face and guide her upwards and look at her then just move in and kiss her..
aww this is what my boyfriend does and i love it its sssososoososo cute:)
No need to ask it more than once- review the answer I gave you before.
Ok, ask her out to the movies... etc. and then you will know the right time,your heart will tell you.
umm at some point during the movie, when you have her arm around her, just tilt her chin up and close your eyes, and just MUAH peck her on the lips
dont be nervous
Make out with her in the movie theater. Thats your best bet.
Real smooth move closer to her, and if she comes closer she want to kiss also. If shes going to movies with you she want to kiss. So just act real copol and confident.
If that doesnt happen, just be cool. And you can kiss her in car when dropping her off.
I would say the best time would be at the door (you should always walk your girlfriend to the door after a date) but since you probably don't drive, and might have a parent drive you that might be awkward. I would say at the end of the movie, or really anytime during... Just don't rush into anything! Work your way up to the kiss; put an arm around her shoulders and lean close. If she puts her head on your shoulder, that's a good sign. Remember not to be shy, you don't want to look nervous. Confidence is the key. Then just go for it!
Good luck! And don't forget the mouthwash :)
Ok, at the movie, maybe half way into it, put your arm around her. Actually, you can do that at the beginning. If she turns to face you and smiles, just kiss her lightly. There you go. Don't go into a make out session or anything. Just kiss her very gently on the lips, and only for about five seconds. Good luck!
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww man i remember when i was 12 we went to the moive and after the movie was over i kissed her and she loved it
ewwwwwwww you are so young and you have a gf eww grose you shold be a sham of your self tha is no good to kiss girls at your age no good you shold ask you mom or dad abote that p.s. no fenceHELP!!! I need some good advice on how,when,and where to kiss my girlfriend for the first time.?
walk her home from school, on a rainy day......that would be the best time to kiss her, tell that she is pretty and that she means the world to you! thats what all girls want to hear!
be different and wait till u get married to kiss someone for ur first time. i am and my gf loves me very much for it.
Firstly, what would be the purpose of kissing. You are too young to be kissing. And, if you truly loved and respected your girlfriend, you would wait until you are much older to be kissing. Your parents are letting you go out to the movies with her alone? You are too young to be dating, much less trying to find out places to kiss your girl. Respect her and wait until she is older.
You could give her a peck on the cheek when you take her home after the movies
have you meant her dad?
if it goes beyond a kiss you might......lol
kiss her on her cheek for the next 5yrs.....lol
you're at the mall, she say something cute, and you both laugh, then you just stop, take her by her arm [gently] when she turn to you, you say, thanks for being so special. then you just tilt your head and [quickly] lightly kiss her lips. and i mean lightly. then you both go on as you were.
have fun....second through don't ......lol
While your watching the movie, and you have you arm around her and she has her head on you shoulder. Tilt her head up and lightly kiss her. Try this during a sweet or romantic time during the movie. Don't make out with her unless she kisses you back and it just seems right.
awww how cute.
just when the moments right and your have your arm around her and you can tell she really comfortable and likes being close to you look down and if she doesnt look up slowly put your hand on her face and guide her upwards and look at her then just move in and kiss her..
aww this is what my boyfriend does and i love it its sssososoososo cute:)
No need to ask it more than once- review the answer I gave you before.
Ok, ask her out to the movies... etc. and then you will know the right time,your heart will tell you.
umm at some point during the movie, when you have her arm around her, just tilt her chin up and close your eyes, and just MUAH peck her on the lips
dont be nervous
Make out with her in the movie theater. Thats your best bet.
Real smooth move closer to her, and if she comes closer she want to kiss also. If shes going to movies with you she want to kiss. So just act real copol and confident.
If that doesnt happen, just be cool. And you can kiss her in car when dropping her off.
I would say the best time would be at the door (you should always walk your girlfriend to the door after a date) but since you probably don't drive, and might have a parent drive you that might be awkward. I would say at the end of the movie, or really anytime during... Just don't rush into anything! Work your way up to the kiss; put an arm around her shoulders and lean close. If she puts her head on your shoulder, that's a good sign. Remember not to be shy, you don't want to look nervous. Confidence is the key. Then just go for it!
Good luck! And don't forget the mouthwash :)
Ok, at the movie, maybe half way into it, put your arm around her. Actually, you can do that at the beginning. If she turns to face you and smiles, just kiss her lightly. There you go. Don't go into a make out session or anything. Just kiss her very gently on the lips, and only for about five seconds. Good luck!
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww man i remember when i was 12 we went to the moive and after the movie was over i kissed her and she loved it
I want to rent out my small house and rent something bigger, not sure how to go about it? need finance advice?
I cant afford to buy bigger house, but need more room for growing family. Only thought is to rent my house out and rent a bigger house. Have heard there is benifits of being able to claim on renovations to my house when its rented. But what about it also being another income. Would i really be better off? dont know who to ask??I want to rent out my small house and rent something bigger, not sure how to go about it? need finance advice?
I'm going to assume you are in the U.S. - The first thing you must do is secure a lease from a prospective tenant on your existing little house. Meanwhile keep your eyes open for homes that are being offered for rent so that once you have your own tenant you can then make the move. Depending on where you are though you may be able to qualify for purchasing a house as mortgage lenders usually look at a signed lease as that particular debt being relieved from you so it opens up some possibilities for you possibly to buy. Try to get 20% more than your current mortgage payment if possible. In other words if your monthly mortgage payment is $1,000 per month, then try to get $1200. Talk with a lender in your area about these possibilities. If you are in PA let me know and I can steer you toward some people! You can check out my website at www.poconomountainlakes.com if you need to get in touch.I want to rent out my small house and rent something bigger, not sure how to go about it? need finance advice?
If you sell your home and it has been your homestead for several years---you don't have to pay income tax on the profit!
If you have made $100,000 in profit then you turn around and rent that house for several years and then sell it, you will have to pay tax on the entire amount...including the $100,000 in profit you made while you lived there.
I wouldn't rent my homestead out and walk away from tax free profit! Talk you your tax guy before you do this.
I'm going to assume you are in the U.S. - The first thing you must do is secure a lease from a prospective tenant on your existing little house. Meanwhile keep your eyes open for homes that are being offered for rent so that once you have your own tenant you can then make the move. Depending on where you are though you may be able to qualify for purchasing a house as mortgage lenders usually look at a signed lease as that particular debt being relieved from you so it opens up some possibilities for you possibly to buy. Try to get 20% more than your current mortgage payment if possible. In other words if your monthly mortgage payment is $1,000 per month, then try to get $1200. Talk with a lender in your area about these possibilities. If you are in PA let me know and I can steer you toward some people! You can check out my website at www.poconomountainlakes.com if you need to get in touch.I want to rent out my small house and rent something bigger, not sure how to go about it? need finance advice?
If you sell your home and it has been your homestead for several years---you don't have to pay income tax on the profit!
If you have made $100,000 in profit then you turn around and rent that house for several years and then sell it, you will have to pay tax on the entire amount...including the $100,000 in profit you made while you lived there.
I wouldn't rent my homestead out and walk away from tax free profit! Talk you your tax guy before you do this.
Can anyone give me any advice on how to convert RMVB files to DVD?? What type of program do I need??
you need to get a program like Ulead dvd movie factory, this will convert and burn your file into a dvd playable in any dvd player. you can set it to wich region as well so if your in england you can set it to region 2 and bam u got a dvd playable in any english dvd player!skin
How to use Honey as a Facial Mask???? PLS ADVICE THIS!!!!!!!!!! AND if u have more ideas on how to make Facial?
Basic Honey Facial Mask
1 egg yolk
2 tablespoons honey
10 drops of almond oil
Whip the above ingredients together until a creamy consistency is achieved. Store any extra in a wide-mouth jar for future use.
Honey Mask with Crushed Almonds
1 tablespoon honey
2 tablespoons finely crushed almonds
1 teaspoon powdered clay
4 tablespoons uncooked oatmeal or cornstarch
Mix the ingredients together and add a little water if the mixture is too thick to spread. Apply the honey almond mask to the face. Gently massage the face, using an upward, circular motion as you rinse. The crushed almonds provide extra exfoliation for the skin.
Honey Face Mask with Oatmeal
3 tablespoons honey
录 cup oatmeal that is finely ground
1 tablespoon of bee pollen
1 tablespoon beaten egg, buttermilk, heavy cream or sour cream, optional
Combine all of the ingredients together and mix until the mixture is smooth. Apply the honey and oatmeal face mask to the skin.
Honey Face Mask with Avocado
2 tablespoons of honey
2 tablespoons of dry buttermilk powder
录 medium size avocado, mashed (dry skin formula) or
录 cup cucumber puree (oily skin formula)
Combine the honey, buttermilk powder, and mashed avocado and stir until the mixture is smooth.
Honey Protein Face Mask
1 tablespoon honey
陆 teaspoon lemon juice or cider vinegar
1 tablespoon bee pollen
陆 teaspoon wheat germ oil or glycerin
1 egg white at room temperature or 1 small whole egg
The first step is to combine the honey, pollen, and lemon juice ingredients. These ingredients should be mixed well until the honey softens. Next, add the remaining ingredients and mix until the mixture is homogeneous.How to use Honey as a Facial Mask???? PLS ADVICE THIS!!!!!!!!!! AND if u have more ideas on how to make Facial?
i think a good mix is honey with banana and oats, the oats work as an exfoliant too =)How to use Honey as a Facial Mask???? PLS ADVICE THIS!!!!!!!!!! AND if u have more ideas on how to make Facial?
cold soapy water and egg whites for soft skin !
1 egg yolk
2 tablespoons honey
10 drops of almond oil
Whip the above ingredients together until a creamy consistency is achieved. Store any extra in a wide-mouth jar for future use.
Honey Mask with Crushed Almonds
1 tablespoon honey
2 tablespoons finely crushed almonds
1 teaspoon powdered clay
4 tablespoons uncooked oatmeal or cornstarch
Mix the ingredients together and add a little water if the mixture is too thick to spread. Apply the honey almond mask to the face. Gently massage the face, using an upward, circular motion as you rinse. The crushed almonds provide extra exfoliation for the skin.
Honey Face Mask with Oatmeal
3 tablespoons honey
录 cup oatmeal that is finely ground
1 tablespoon of bee pollen
1 tablespoon beaten egg, buttermilk, heavy cream or sour cream, optional
Combine all of the ingredients together and mix until the mixture is smooth. Apply the honey and oatmeal face mask to the skin.
Honey Face Mask with Avocado
2 tablespoons of honey
2 tablespoons of dry buttermilk powder
录 medium size avocado, mashed (dry skin formula) or
录 cup cucumber puree (oily skin formula)
Combine the honey, buttermilk powder, and mashed avocado and stir until the mixture is smooth.
Honey Protein Face Mask
1 tablespoon honey
陆 teaspoon lemon juice or cider vinegar
1 tablespoon bee pollen
陆 teaspoon wheat germ oil or glycerin
1 egg white at room temperature or 1 small whole egg
The first step is to combine the honey, pollen, and lemon juice ingredients. These ingredients should be mixed well until the honey softens. Next, add the remaining ingredients and mix until the mixture is homogeneous.How to use Honey as a Facial Mask???? PLS ADVICE THIS!!!!!!!!!! AND if u have more ideas on how to make Facial?
i think a good mix is honey with banana and oats, the oats work as an exfoliant too =)How to use Honey as a Facial Mask???? PLS ADVICE THIS!!!!!!!!!! AND if u have more ideas on how to make Facial?
cold soapy water and egg whites for soft skin !
I need an advice..!!How to tell a guy you don't love him nicely, when he says ';i love you';??!!!?
just be polite but firm when u tell himI need an advice..!!How to tell a guy you don't love him nicely, when he says ';i love you';??!!!?
Be honest and just tell him how you feel
Be honest and just tell him how you feel
Can smb give me sme advice on how to get a new fresh look?
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ive already decided to dye my hair with lush henna鈥?and get some bronze tan鈥?.what else can u sugets any god advice welcome:))
Can smb give me sme advice on how to get a new fresh look?
you look good like that !!
ive already decided to dye my hair with lush henna鈥?and get some bronze tan鈥?.what else can u sugets any god advice welcome:))
Can smb give me sme advice on how to get a new fresh look?
you look good like that !!
Please Help My Boyfriend is Missing any advice how to handle?
My boyfriend went to workout yesterday at 11 am and never returned. I called him but he didn't answer his cell I assumed maybe he went to his friends house ( I don't have his friends number ) but he usually calls me if he stays out longer than expected when he didn't show up at 3am this morning I called the police. I am stressing out and I haven't slept all night. I called his parents who are foreign and can't speak English to try and explain. Finally I get a cal back from his father who is better in English and he advised me that everything is ok...He talked to his sister and things are ok..ok?..He never called me...he still hasn't called me. it is 7:30am and I have yet to receive a call...wtf is going on?Please Help My Boyfriend is Missing any advice how to handle?
If your boyfriends family knows that he is definitely OK, physically I mean, no accident, hospital etc. then all you can do is wait. Has there been any signs that you might have noticed recently? You had a lot of time to think in the last hours signs he left, wracking your brain with worry, and thinking the worst. Is there anything that NOW you can sort of say, OH KAY.....NOW certain little things might make some sense? If you can put your finger on some subtle things that you might have overlooked recently, you definitely are owed an explanation. I would personally not call him, but when he does get in touch tell him there is definitely going to be a heart to heart. I am glad that he is OK, however, I hope you can work this out and there is a reasonable explanation for his absence. Let him have his say, and let him know that he was very irresponsible and had you worried to death. Again, hope that all ends well.Please Help My Boyfriend is Missing any advice how to handle?
Sounds like if ';everything is ok'; - then he's okay, but for some reason he's not okay with you. I don't know the specifics of your relationship, however, it doesn't sound good. My advice, don't bother calling him at all unless he calls you. There's something you're missing (in terms of what's going on). There's no good excuse for the disappearing act.
I have to go with he may be cheating. If not cheating, then he is hiding something. Maybe he wants to call it quits and is giving you a hint. Sorry, that is just how I feel and I hope he proves me wrong. Good luck sweets.
Just my intuition, but since he has talked to his sister and he is apparently okay and in no physical harm, nor in the hospital or in jail... he has then very obviously done something wrong and cannot face you. Not yet anyway.
If I were you I would leave him a very calm message telling him to please call you back and / or get his butt home and soon! I would also indicate in that message that by his actions you know he is deliberately deceiving you about something, in which case you both need to talk. Immediately.
If you LOVE him and he has done something he is feeling shameful or guilty about then it is up to you to afford him the opportunity to come clean. Hard I know, but remember you are a mature adult.
Upon his being straight with you, you can then choose how to proceed from there.
In the meantime, calm down and get him to come back home.
good luck
any signs of him not happy in the relationship any more? or maybe he is cheating? you did the right thing about calling the cops......i would have filed a missing person on him......but if the father knows something is going on then he should tell you where he is.........if he decides to come home then talk it over or leave him....
Well I would say that he found someone new.
If his family says he is ok...I would think more along the lines of...sorry to say this dear...cheating.
Maybe he is just cheating on you boo...but you need to not worry because he'll come back eventually
maybe he's going thru something in his life and needs sometime alone... i do not see any other reason why he should be doing this unless he's intending a breakup... so for being so direct... its just how i see it.
u should think that he's maybe now thinking about u , don't get freak out , relax and wait , maybe something happend to him and he couldn't call ....
If your boyfriends family knows that he is definitely OK, physically I mean, no accident, hospital etc. then all you can do is wait. Has there been any signs that you might have noticed recently? You had a lot of time to think in the last hours signs he left, wracking your brain with worry, and thinking the worst. Is there anything that NOW you can sort of say, OH KAY.....NOW certain little things might make some sense? If you can put your finger on some subtle things that you might have overlooked recently, you definitely are owed an explanation. I would personally not call him, but when he does get in touch tell him there is definitely going to be a heart to heart. I am glad that he is OK, however, I hope you can work this out and there is a reasonable explanation for his absence. Let him have his say, and let him know that he was very irresponsible and had you worried to death. Again, hope that all ends well.Please Help My Boyfriend is Missing any advice how to handle?
Sounds like if ';everything is ok'; - then he's okay, but for some reason he's not okay with you. I don't know the specifics of your relationship, however, it doesn't sound good. My advice, don't bother calling him at all unless he calls you. There's something you're missing (in terms of what's going on). There's no good excuse for the disappearing act.
I have to go with he may be cheating. If not cheating, then he is hiding something. Maybe he wants to call it quits and is giving you a hint. Sorry, that is just how I feel and I hope he proves me wrong. Good luck sweets.
Just my intuition, but since he has talked to his sister and he is apparently okay and in no physical harm, nor in the hospital or in jail... he has then very obviously done something wrong and cannot face you. Not yet anyway.
If I were you I would leave him a very calm message telling him to please call you back and / or get his butt home and soon! I would also indicate in that message that by his actions you know he is deliberately deceiving you about something, in which case you both need to talk. Immediately.
If you LOVE him and he has done something he is feeling shameful or guilty about then it is up to you to afford him the opportunity to come clean. Hard I know, but remember you are a mature adult.
Upon his being straight with you, you can then choose how to proceed from there.
In the meantime, calm down and get him to come back home.
good luck
any signs of him not happy in the relationship any more? or maybe he is cheating? you did the right thing about calling the cops......i would have filed a missing person on him......but if the father knows something is going on then he should tell you where he is.........if he decides to come home then talk it over or leave him....
Well I would say that he found someone new.
If his family says he is ok...I would think more along the lines of...sorry to say this dear...cheating.
Maybe he is just cheating on you boo...but you need to not worry because he'll come back eventually
maybe he's going thru something in his life and needs sometime alone... i do not see any other reason why he should be doing this unless he's intending a breakup... so for being so direct... its just how i see it.
u should think that he's maybe now thinking about u , don't get freak out , relax and wait , maybe something happend to him and he couldn't call ....
Can you give me some advice on how to quit bitting my nails?
Hey I use to have the same problem and now i long wicked nails. I used Sally Hansen Stop Bite (sumthing similar). You paint it on ur nails and everytime u bite ur nails it tastes really bad, eventually u will stop! I have referred to my friends and it worked from them too. U can find it at Kmart/WalmartCan you give me some advice on how to quit bitting my nails?
CVS sells this great stuff--it's nail polish called NoBite-- and I chewed my fingernails for years, just couldn't quit but that finally made me stop. Hope it works for you! Good luck! %26lt;3 JessCan you give me some advice on how to quit bitting my nails?
Ask yourself, ';Why do I bite my nails';? Address the when, where, and why. The best you could do for yourself is just Stop biting! Just do not do it anymore! Control your conscious thoughts ... insist on ';Ultimate Respect for you! If you continue to bite, then, you must like doing it. Find out ';What's Really Going On';.
They sell stuff, that's intended for babies and toddlers, but it will work on you........ buy it in the baby section of a store........ it's a liquid that you put on your finger tips, it dries.....when you go to bite them........they taste is HORRIBLE. It'll make you stop your habit very fast.
put tape on them and if you really want to stop you'll stop.
Think of something or someone and let that be your motivation
it worked for me!
you can buy this nail polish (well it's not exactly nail polish) but you put it on your nail and whenever you bite it, it taste really bitter. unfortunately i have no idea where to get it from. but i used to bite my nails all the time..
Don't think about your nails.If you're a girl put nail polish on to make the taste really bad.Think about all the bad causes you could get from bitting your nails.
this time try biting plates, dining table, ur pc, stereo...
Squeeze something very bitter on them between meals. You won't be able to put them in proximity to your nose or mouth!!!
put realy pretty and bad tasting nail polish on you hands! they can look pretty and your whout be bitting them!
Burn yourself every time you do. Or put something that tastes really, really bad on them.
hehehe this makes me laugh.. because i have a cousin with the same xact problem!!!.. we tried so many things.. it got to a point where she was desperate to grow her nails, that we would hit her everytime her fingers went towards her mouth!... , and then there was thiso ne day ... when we were randomly at the pharmacie .( drugstore) and .. we were looking at the nailpolish, theres this sally hansen thing.. im not quite sure of the name but like yeh... u coat ur nails with it , and then if u taste it .. ITS ABSOLUTELY GROSS!.. it's really bitter, ever since haha!.. lets just say, she has the nicest nails on the block ;). LOL
Wear gloves. Ha, ha.
Well, I've never had that habit, but I'll try to help.
-Go out and buy three different nailpolishes (whatever you like best) and a French manicure set. Go home and paint your nails all pretty, take your sweet time doing each and every one. Then, when you go to bite your nails, remember all the time and money that went into their beauty and force yourself to stop!
-When you go to bite your nails, think of all the germs and dieseses and dirt that could be living under there. That should gross you out enough to stop
-Habits take about 21-30 days to break, so don't give up!!!
Good luck!
I used to bite my nails all the time.
About a year ago I got my lip pierced, now i'm busy with that.
When I take it out sometimes I find myself biteing again.
Find something to take your mind off it.
In order to quit biting your nails, you should do the following: give your yourself reasons not to bite them, give your fingers thing's to do or hide your fingers when you want to bite your nails.skin
CVS sells this great stuff--it's nail polish called NoBite-- and I chewed my fingernails for years, just couldn't quit but that finally made me stop. Hope it works for you! Good luck! %26lt;3 JessCan you give me some advice on how to quit bitting my nails?
Ask yourself, ';Why do I bite my nails';? Address the when, where, and why. The best you could do for yourself is just Stop biting! Just do not do it anymore! Control your conscious thoughts ... insist on ';Ultimate Respect for you! If you continue to bite, then, you must like doing it. Find out ';What's Really Going On';.
They sell stuff, that's intended for babies and toddlers, but it will work on you........ buy it in the baby section of a store........ it's a liquid that you put on your finger tips, it dries.....when you go to bite them........they taste is HORRIBLE. It'll make you stop your habit very fast.
put tape on them and if you really want to stop you'll stop.
Think of something or someone and let that be your motivation
it worked for me!
you can buy this nail polish (well it's not exactly nail polish) but you put it on your nail and whenever you bite it, it taste really bitter. unfortunately i have no idea where to get it from. but i used to bite my nails all the time..
Don't think about your nails.If you're a girl put nail polish on to make the taste really bad.Think about all the bad causes you could get from bitting your nails.
this time try biting plates, dining table, ur pc, stereo...
Squeeze something very bitter on them between meals. You won't be able to put them in proximity to your nose or mouth!!!
put realy pretty and bad tasting nail polish on you hands! they can look pretty and your whout be bitting them!
Burn yourself every time you do. Or put something that tastes really, really bad on them.
hehehe this makes me laugh.. because i have a cousin with the same xact problem!!!.. we tried so many things.. it got to a point where she was desperate to grow her nails, that we would hit her everytime her fingers went towards her mouth!... , and then there was thiso ne day ... when we were randomly at the pharmacie .( drugstore) and .. we were looking at the nailpolish, theres this sally hansen thing.. im not quite sure of the name but like yeh... u coat ur nails with it , and then if u taste it .. ITS ABSOLUTELY GROSS!.. it's really bitter, ever since haha!.. lets just say, she has the nicest nails on the block ;). LOL
Wear gloves. Ha, ha.
Well, I've never had that habit, but I'll try to help.
-Go out and buy three different nailpolishes (whatever you like best) and a French manicure set. Go home and paint your nails all pretty, take your sweet time doing each and every one. Then, when you go to bite your nails, remember all the time and money that went into their beauty and force yourself to stop!
-When you go to bite your nails, think of all the germs and dieseses and dirt that could be living under there. That should gross you out enough to stop
-Habits take about 21-30 days to break, so don't give up!!!
Good luck!
I used to bite my nails all the time.
About a year ago I got my lip pierced, now i'm busy with that.
When I take it out sometimes I find myself biteing again.
Find something to take your mind off it.
In order to quit biting your nails, you should do the following: give your yourself reasons not to bite them, give your fingers thing's to do or hide your fingers when you want to bite your nails.
I need an advice..!!How to tell a guy you don't love him nicely, when he says ';i love you';??
If he tell you that he loves you....You tell him that you feel the same as in I love you as a friend...which means i care for you and have respect for you and i don't want to see you get hurt by anybody.....But I'm not in love with you as in a relationship....Then tell him is this the love you have for me as a friend? Then he'll think about it and let you know......Its better to be straight out than beating around the bush....I need an advice..!!How to tell a guy you don't love him nicely, when he says ';i love you';??
By say ';lets just be friends'; but, get ready to be coerced into an argument and he'll want to know ';why'; your going to have to let him go I think. You should never have let him go this far or, lead him on.I need an advice..!!How to tell a guy you don't love him nicely, when he says ';i love you';??
Let's be FRIENDS.
It is far better relationship than lovers.
By say ';lets just be friends'; but, get ready to be coerced into an argument and he'll want to know ';why'; your going to have to let him go I think. You should never have let him go this far or, lead him on.I need an advice..!!How to tell a guy you don't love him nicely, when he says ';i love you';??
Let's be FRIENDS.
It is far better relationship than lovers.
I'm engaged and in need of advice. How do i know if i'm ready to get married?
Its been 2 months since he poped the question. We've been dating for 3 years. I love him to death but i'm scared! I find myself picking at things i never used to fuss about before. I start fights over the smallest things. Am i trying to find a reason not to get married? Since the day i met him, i knew he was it for me. He was my first EVERYTHING and i really want him to be my ONLY. We're both in our 20s by the way.
I just need some adivce. Books to read, articles to read, anything, please help.
I've been waiting for this my whole life! I dont want tor uin this great opportunity because of cold feet. PLEASE HELPI'm engaged and in need of advice. How do i know if i'm ready to get married?
LOL. You're such a cutie. I wish more people could be in your situation. What you're experiencing is perfectly normal. You're a little nervous about getting married, who isn't? It's a lifelong commitment that takes a lot of work from start to finish. Anyone who ISN'T scared to death of marriage may need to rethink their decision. What you're describing is the classic case of cold feet. You're really taking this seriously because you love the guy and it scares you a little. Trust me, that's a GOOD thing. It will subside with time, just keep your head about you and enjoy the fact that you're going to marry the one and only man who's ever been intimate with you. And as for nit picking over little things, try and give that a bit of a rest. Try thinking about what you're picking a fight over before you pick it. You'll start catching yourself before too long and that's a good habit to get in to.
Congratulations and I hope everything works out. Just take a deep breath, enjoy the moment, and stop picking those little fights miss missy! lol Good luck sweetie.I'm engaged and in need of advice. How do i know if i'm ready to get married?
ask ur self if ur ready to give up everything
Simply put..if you have to question whether you are ready or not...then you aren't.
There....simple wasn't it?
u wrote that u know he is the only one for u and that u are ruining things due to cold feet... you already know your deal girlie!
dont mess things up and push him away.
best of luck!! xoxo
sounds like you're just nervous. the two of you have been dating for a while, and now you're beginning to realize that your relationship with this guy will change entirely. if you are doing any wedding planning, you also might be stressed over it. just step back, take a deep breath, and don't worry about anything. if you believe that you are with the right person, then everything will work out. good luck!
I got a tattoo recently (no joke) and the tattoo shop had a sign that said ';It will not hurt, if you really want it';
Think about that, if you really are ready, you will know it, and you will stop the nitpicking
if you are not ready, and keep nitpicking, break it off.
After 3 years, you 2 should be now, know everything about each other, the only true answer is YOU NEED to decide, noone else can for you.
Everyone gets this way. Just cold feet.
i think you should put off getting married untill you fully explore these questions that you are raising.
btw all of those feelings are very natural for engaged couples. I've read a few relationship books but i would suggest reading Gay Hendricks 'Conscious Loving'. also suggest reading other books about relationships.
learn as much as you can b4 you get married. see a relationship counselor. the counselor is an investment but the advise is worth it. right now it seems like your communication could use some work but it sounds like you want this relationship to work. im sure this is a very special relationship so, good luck.
He doesnt' deserve to be treated this way. If you are not ready tel him, don't lead him on.
No one can tell you what is right or what is wrong, look in your heart for the answer, what is it telling you?
The way to know is to look at this with logic. Can he support you if needed? Is your lives together (career)? Are you guys mature enough? Can you say that you know he really is the one that will be there for you until one of you die? Is it too soon to get married? Are you too young? Personally I say wait until you turn 27 or older. This is a good site to check out and you can purchase books. http://www.drlaura.com/main/
First, thing I would do is to explain and communicate to him what you wrote in your question. I think that it would only be fair for him to know how you are truly feeling.
Then, I would suggest going and taking some pre-marital counseling, and I think that would ease a lot of the tension and anxiety you are feeling.
It will also open your eyes to a lot of things that you may have not even thought about.
Marriage is a big step, but if he is the right for you then it is also a very good step.
I wish you all the best.
I just need some adivce. Books to read, articles to read, anything, please help.
I've been waiting for this my whole life! I dont want tor uin this great opportunity because of cold feet. PLEASE HELPI'm engaged and in need of advice. How do i know if i'm ready to get married?
LOL. You're such a cutie. I wish more people could be in your situation. What you're experiencing is perfectly normal. You're a little nervous about getting married, who isn't? It's a lifelong commitment that takes a lot of work from start to finish. Anyone who ISN'T scared to death of marriage may need to rethink their decision. What you're describing is the classic case of cold feet. You're really taking this seriously because you love the guy and it scares you a little. Trust me, that's a GOOD thing. It will subside with time, just keep your head about you and enjoy the fact that you're going to marry the one and only man who's ever been intimate with you. And as for nit picking over little things, try and give that a bit of a rest. Try thinking about what you're picking a fight over before you pick it. You'll start catching yourself before too long and that's a good habit to get in to.
Congratulations and I hope everything works out. Just take a deep breath, enjoy the moment, and stop picking those little fights miss missy! lol Good luck sweetie.I'm engaged and in need of advice. How do i know if i'm ready to get married?
ask ur self if ur ready to give up everything
Simply put..if you have to question whether you are ready or not...then you aren't.
There....simple wasn't it?
u wrote that u know he is the only one for u and that u are ruining things due to cold feet... you already know your deal girlie!
dont mess things up and push him away.
best of luck!! xoxo
sounds like you're just nervous. the two of you have been dating for a while, and now you're beginning to realize that your relationship with this guy will change entirely. if you are doing any wedding planning, you also might be stressed over it. just step back, take a deep breath, and don't worry about anything. if you believe that you are with the right person, then everything will work out. good luck!
I got a tattoo recently (no joke) and the tattoo shop had a sign that said ';It will not hurt, if you really want it';
Think about that, if you really are ready, you will know it, and you will stop the nitpicking
if you are not ready, and keep nitpicking, break it off.
After 3 years, you 2 should be now, know everything about each other, the only true answer is YOU NEED to decide, noone else can for you.
Everyone gets this way. Just cold feet.
i think you should put off getting married untill you fully explore these questions that you are raising.
btw all of those feelings are very natural for engaged couples. I've read a few relationship books but i would suggest reading Gay Hendricks 'Conscious Loving'. also suggest reading other books about relationships.
learn as much as you can b4 you get married. see a relationship counselor. the counselor is an investment but the advise is worth it. right now it seems like your communication could use some work but it sounds like you want this relationship to work. im sure this is a very special relationship so, good luck.
He doesnt' deserve to be treated this way. If you are not ready tel him, don't lead him on.
No one can tell you what is right or what is wrong, look in your heart for the answer, what is it telling you?
The way to know is to look at this with logic. Can he support you if needed? Is your lives together (career)? Are you guys mature enough? Can you say that you know he really is the one that will be there for you until one of you die? Is it too soon to get married? Are you too young? Personally I say wait until you turn 27 or older. This is a good site to check out and you can purchase books. http://www.drlaura.com/main/
First, thing I would do is to explain and communicate to him what you wrote in your question. I think that it would only be fair for him to know how you are truly feeling.
Then, I would suggest going and taking some pre-marital counseling, and I think that would ease a lot of the tension and anxiety you are feeling.
It will also open your eyes to a lot of things that you may have not even thought about.
Marriage is a big step, but if he is the right for you then it is also a very good step.
I wish you all the best.
How many times have you had to listen to the same good advice before you actually took it?
Doesn't it suck when other people are right about you? Well, it sucked for me.....How many times have you had to listen to the same good advice before you actually took it?
Yea it does suck, but that is how we grow and learn lessons. Other people can see our character defects before we can see our own. As for how many times? As many as it takes for you to learn that your way might not be working for you.How many times have you had to listen to the same good advice before you actually took it?
It doesn't matter how many times it hits your eardrums, it never penetrates until you agree with it.
And that's only when you're deep enough in the soup to figure it out for yourself.
However, since our lives are our own responsibility and we insist on ';freedom,'; that's the going price.
i can dish out the best advice and i always help my friends out by basically giving them a reality check .lol. but i can NEVER seem to take my own advice. even if i know im making the wrong decision.
but at least you learned your lesson. my enitre life ive had to learn lessons the hard way. IT DOES SUCK!
OMG I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes it just doesnt sink in the first 100 times they tell you. lol And then they get so say the dreaded ';see, if you would have listened to me you wouldn't be in this mess.'; Oh yeah, it sucks big time :)
With me, it is not necessarily how many times I hear it, but whose lips it comes out of. and yeah, it does suck...especially when you KNEW all along.
Sometimes even when you are 43 like me you dont want to admit someone else is right, they can see what we cannot or either choose not to see
Yup. and then they rub it in your face! SuX!!!
-aly
Yea it does suck, but that is how we grow and learn lessons. Other people can see our character defects before we can see our own. As for how many times? As many as it takes for you to learn that your way might not be working for you.How many times have you had to listen to the same good advice before you actually took it?
It doesn't matter how many times it hits your eardrums, it never penetrates until you agree with it.
And that's only when you're deep enough in the soup to figure it out for yourself.
However, since our lives are our own responsibility and we insist on ';freedom,'; that's the going price.
i can dish out the best advice and i always help my friends out by basically giving them a reality check .lol. but i can NEVER seem to take my own advice. even if i know im making the wrong decision.
but at least you learned your lesson. my enitre life ive had to learn lessons the hard way. IT DOES SUCK!
OMG I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes it just doesnt sink in the first 100 times they tell you. lol And then they get so say the dreaded ';see, if you would have listened to me you wouldn't be in this mess.'; Oh yeah, it sucks big time :)
With me, it is not necessarily how many times I hear it, but whose lips it comes out of. and yeah, it does suck...especially when you KNEW all along.
Sometimes even when you are 43 like me you dont want to admit someone else is right, they can see what we cannot or either choose not to see
Yup. and then they rub it in your face! SuX!!!
-aly
How can I transfer all my itunes from my current laptop to my new one. Best advice would be grateful. Thanks?
Either as the user stated above with an external hard drive or you can just connect the two computers directly via a cheap ethernet cable (most computers have a LAN connection).
Or you can log them both onto a wireless network and transfer that way. LAN connection will be the fastest though.
Good luck
Rick
Re: 'memory stick', Yeah you can use one if your music collection in small enough to fit on one. Pretty handy. However I imagine the majority of people these days have a music collection surpassing the average memory card capacity. You could still use one and transfer it in multiple batches though.
Re: 'blank cd's / dvd's'.. Again, a Cd is only 700Mb, DVD 4Gb. Chances are your music collection is a lot bigger than this! If it isn't go right ahead!How can I transfer all my itunes from my current laptop to my new one. Best advice would be grateful. Thanks?
insert a writable cd %26gt; start menu %26gt; music %26gt; right click itunes and select send to your disk drive, finally insert the cd into your other comp and select open fdolder to view files and drag and drop or copy and the itunes folder to your favourite place like music folder or desktop. then finally right click the folder and choose open with itunes or open itunes %26gt; file %26gt; add folderHow can I transfer all my itunes from my current laptop to my new one. Best advice would be grateful. Thanks?
There are programs that allow you to back-up your iPod. So, you back-up, then restore to the new computer. You can find these through google. You may need to buy the software (demos are restricted) but the cost is low, and CDs / DVDs aren't free - and they are time consuming.
google ';back-up iPod'; for a range of options.
Hi, link your 2 laptops via an ethernet cable and create a home network between them, put all your music into a shared folder and transfer. Use the Network connections icon in control Panel and follow the wizard.
i think get an external drive with enough memory to store all your tunes
load up %26amp; unplug........plug into the new laptop %26amp; transfer
External HDD or a memory stick
just go were you saved all your music and copy the folder on to blank disk
Or you can log them both onto a wireless network and transfer that way. LAN connection will be the fastest though.
Good luck
Rick
Re: 'memory stick', Yeah you can use one if your music collection in small enough to fit on one. Pretty handy. However I imagine the majority of people these days have a music collection surpassing the average memory card capacity. You could still use one and transfer it in multiple batches though.
Re: 'blank cd's / dvd's'.. Again, a Cd is only 700Mb, DVD 4Gb. Chances are your music collection is a lot bigger than this! If it isn't go right ahead!How can I transfer all my itunes from my current laptop to my new one. Best advice would be grateful. Thanks?
insert a writable cd %26gt; start menu %26gt; music %26gt; right click itunes and select send to your disk drive, finally insert the cd into your other comp and select open fdolder to view files and drag and drop or copy and the itunes folder to your favourite place like music folder or desktop. then finally right click the folder and choose open with itunes or open itunes %26gt; file %26gt; add folderHow can I transfer all my itunes from my current laptop to my new one. Best advice would be grateful. Thanks?
There are programs that allow you to back-up your iPod. So, you back-up, then restore to the new computer. You can find these through google. You may need to buy the software (demos are restricted) but the cost is low, and CDs / DVDs aren't free - and they are time consuming.
google ';back-up iPod'; for a range of options.
Hi, link your 2 laptops via an ethernet cable and create a home network between them, put all your music into a shared folder and transfer. Use the Network connections icon in control Panel and follow the wizard.
i think get an external drive with enough memory to store all your tunes
load up %26amp; unplug........plug into the new laptop %26amp; transfer
External HDD or a memory stick
just go were you saved all your music and copy the folder on to blank disk
Any advice on how to deal with a drunken stepdad?
As soon as I can find a drunk for my mom to marry, I will follow your suggestions.Any advice on how to deal with a drunken stepdad?
Can you please look up what developmentally delayed means, and see your physch about this, you may need meds?
Tracylyn SAny advice on how to deal with a drunken stepdad?
All that contradicts itself. u need to make more sense.
Not sure about this one
Hmmm...?
If you can't beat 'em, join 'em.
Take a BIBLE wrap it , put his name on it and put it on the doorstep with some balloons and stuff, ring the doorbell and get gone!!
Problem solved.
Can you please look up what developmentally delayed means, and see your physch about this, you may need meds?
Tracylyn SAny advice on how to deal with a drunken stepdad?
All that contradicts itself. u need to make more sense.
Not sure about this one
Hmmm...?
If you can't beat 'em, join 'em.
Take a BIBLE wrap it , put his name on it and put it on the doorstep with some balloons and stuff, ring the doorbell and get gone!!
Problem solved.
Any advice on how to get over someone?
I was really in love with this guy for years and he said he would never marry me. Though we are having a daughter in June. I want to give up and walk away but I know its going to be hard. We currently live together, so after he leaves what can i expect? what can I do to get over it easier? I know it will be heartwrenching but marriage is important to me. it makes me feel unwanted that he feels this way, so i am ending it.Any advice on how to get over someone?
Well, I have had several failed relationships. My deepest desire for many years was to just be a wife: that was all I wanted. I wanted a husband to honor me and cherish me. Someone who would lay down his life for me and be completely committed to be with me, forever. I do believe it is possible, but, I'm not sure that it's what I need right now.
It took me years to get over one guy. Even though he was abusive to me, disrespected me and eventually won custody of our two children, I still thought, for many years, that I really loved him. It took a long time to realize that he had no love for me. His motivation was not about real love: it was control.
If your dream is to one day be married and in a committed relationship, then you are really selling yourself short to stick with this guy, when he clearly states he won't marry you. He is showing you that he has little, or no respect for you. Even after you are now having his child, he is still not going to change and become committed to you. Seems to me, you are setting yourself up for a long heartache!
I am working to understand myself and my relationship choices. I read, ';Women who Love Too much'; and it was a real eye opener! I got divorced about a year and half ago. I would say, I'm still not ';over'; my ex. But, I am happy with myself and know that my life is now better off without him. It does help, I think, that I have the kids to care for. They sure keep me from being lonely! LOL
Work to see your worth in yourself! Find something that you can be passionate about and DO IT! Make some goals for your future: dream and plan. You CAN be a whole person. Many have some idea that we are less than whole if we are not part of a couple. This is not correct. You are a whole, special person, with individual abilities and talents. Find those things that fuel your creativity, sooth your spirit and give you a sense of accomplishment.
Instead of focusing on all the things about my past relationships I didn't want, I began to make a list of those things I WOULD have in my next relationship. I want to keep my mind on my goals and dreams. And my vision can become reality with my good choices. You are not a victim of this circumstance and your ex. You can make a better future for yourself and your baby!
Good luck and take good care. Remember to drink plenty of water too! ; )
RAny advice on how to get over someone?
i think the best think you can do is talk to him and tell him exactly what your asking/telling here. communication is the best thing in a relationship, t think. and space is always good and hang out withfriends or family.
you can't get over a guy until you love another guy.
its just gonna take timeskin
Well, I have had several failed relationships. My deepest desire for many years was to just be a wife: that was all I wanted. I wanted a husband to honor me and cherish me. Someone who would lay down his life for me and be completely committed to be with me, forever. I do believe it is possible, but, I'm not sure that it's what I need right now.
It took me years to get over one guy. Even though he was abusive to me, disrespected me and eventually won custody of our two children, I still thought, for many years, that I really loved him. It took a long time to realize that he had no love for me. His motivation was not about real love: it was control.
If your dream is to one day be married and in a committed relationship, then you are really selling yourself short to stick with this guy, when he clearly states he won't marry you. He is showing you that he has little, or no respect for you. Even after you are now having his child, he is still not going to change and become committed to you. Seems to me, you are setting yourself up for a long heartache!
I am working to understand myself and my relationship choices. I read, ';Women who Love Too much'; and it was a real eye opener! I got divorced about a year and half ago. I would say, I'm still not ';over'; my ex. But, I am happy with myself and know that my life is now better off without him. It does help, I think, that I have the kids to care for. They sure keep me from being lonely! LOL
Work to see your worth in yourself! Find something that you can be passionate about and DO IT! Make some goals for your future: dream and plan. You CAN be a whole person. Many have some idea that we are less than whole if we are not part of a couple. This is not correct. You are a whole, special person, with individual abilities and talents. Find those things that fuel your creativity, sooth your spirit and give you a sense of accomplishment.
Instead of focusing on all the things about my past relationships I didn't want, I began to make a list of those things I WOULD have in my next relationship. I want to keep my mind on my goals and dreams. And my vision can become reality with my good choices. You are not a victim of this circumstance and your ex. You can make a better future for yourself and your baby!
Good luck and take good care. Remember to drink plenty of water too! ; )
RAny advice on how to get over someone?
i think the best think you can do is talk to him and tell him exactly what your asking/telling here. communication is the best thing in a relationship, t think. and space is always good and hang out withfriends or family.
you can't get over a guy until you love another guy.
its just gonna take time
Anyone have advice how to control ejaculation? I heard accupuncture might help does anyone know?
foreplay
oral sex then after u came u try and get Ur partner to come
by then u would have recovered Ur ***** and then try it with Ur partner on top after a few trys u will be use to coming laterAnyone have advice how to control ejaculation? I heard accupuncture might help does anyone know?
control it how? distance? direction? not having it so soon and not satisfying partner?Anyone have advice how to control ejaculation? I heard accupuncture might help does anyone know?
hey, very easy, i will tell u very simlpe asan for it.
Needles on the penis sounds like it might hurt.
i think so,that helps alot.
oral sex then after u came u try and get Ur partner to come
by then u would have recovered Ur ***** and then try it with Ur partner on top after a few trys u will be use to coming laterAnyone have advice how to control ejaculation? I heard accupuncture might help does anyone know?
control it how? distance? direction? not having it so soon and not satisfying partner?Anyone have advice how to control ejaculation? I heard accupuncture might help does anyone know?
hey, very easy, i will tell u very simlpe asan for it.
Needles on the penis sounds like it might hurt.
i think so,that helps alot.
Can somebody give me advice on how to get a best answer?
Can somebody give me advice on how to get a best answer? PLZ preferably for a sports catergory. Any advice plz helpCan somebody give me advice on how to get a best answer?
I just answer honestly, and at least once every 1 or 2 days I get a best answer. Obvisouly, the more questions you answer the better chance you get.
Just be honest.Can somebody give me advice on how to get a best answer?
not just a good answer will do... A great answer will be best!
you can clearly post your question and give it a long timeframe, those with catagory 2 or above will mark it either a good or bad answer and you can see which is the best from that if you don't know the right answer
Just ans in ur style..
I find that when you pick a question that you can relate to and answer it throughly you have the best chance. Good Luck!!
I generally award ';best answer'; to the most useful answer. If two or more questions are equally useful then I look to who was more thorough. If two or more are equally thorough, then I look to see who had the best spelling and grammar. If more than one answer had good spelling and grammar, then I likely will choose whoever answered first of these equally useful and correct answers.
know the correct answer, explain it clearly, use proper english, spell correctly (category), and don't use abbreviations like PLZ.
it also helps if you cite your source and give more information than they asked for.
Answer questions with every little bit of detail as you can
You might have better luck on asking your friends to sign up and then post a question. Have them purposefully pick you. Or research your answer and include a link.
ask the person
give a good answer
Know what you're talking about before you answer. Actually know the subject you're talking about. That might help. Also, make it lengthy. Not like mine. My answer is BAD.
find a question that no one seems interested in answering - if you are the only one who answers = automatic best answer!
Why care?
The best thing you can do is to not obsess on a completely meaningless thing, like your answer being picked by the asker as best, or by voters.
What do you think will happen, ultimate ecstacy?
Not.
I don't know about sports categories, specifically.
Read the question, including all the Details, and make sure you understand what the person is asking.
Then read the answers that have already been given (Refresh the screen, so you can see them all).
If what you have to say has already been given, don't bother answering; move on. When a bunch of people give identical answers, the first is usually picked.
When you answer, answer completely. Give back-up sources, when reasonable.
Be coherent and clear. Explain so what you've said is understandable.
But if you think getting a Best is going to do you any good, you're in for a big surprise; it isn't.
Get a grip.
ive had about 5 just answer to the best of your knowlege and thoroughly
answer questions that you actually know about. dont just wikipedia something because chances are someone will give a better answer off their actual knowledge. i started off with 0% best answers for basically all of my answers (like all up until 2weeks ago) and then i started to pick the questions i answer more carefully and answer the ones i have personal experience with or that i just know. then i got like, 7 best answers in about a week.
also, dont make your answer too short (about my answer length is between ok and a bit short) or too long (voters wont read it because its a pain to read lol)
hope this helps
I would love to give you advice... But I have the exact same problem! No matter how hard you try, it seems as if someone always one-ups you! Well, I will post a question in a few minutes with the title of your username and I will give you the best answer. Just to make your day! : )
(if you don't respond tonight then I will give the points to someone else who I feel deserves it. But hey, at least I am giving you a chance.)
I just answer honestly, and at least once every 1 or 2 days I get a best answer. Obvisouly, the more questions you answer the better chance you get.
Just be honest.Can somebody give me advice on how to get a best answer?
not just a good answer will do... A great answer will be best!
you can clearly post your question and give it a long timeframe, those with catagory 2 or above will mark it either a good or bad answer and you can see which is the best from that if you don't know the right answer
Just ans in ur style..
I find that when you pick a question that you can relate to and answer it throughly you have the best chance. Good Luck!!
I generally award ';best answer'; to the most useful answer. If two or more questions are equally useful then I look to who was more thorough. If two or more are equally thorough, then I look to see who had the best spelling and grammar. If more than one answer had good spelling and grammar, then I likely will choose whoever answered first of these equally useful and correct answers.
know the correct answer, explain it clearly, use proper english, spell correctly (category), and don't use abbreviations like PLZ.
it also helps if you cite your source and give more information than they asked for.
Answer questions with every little bit of detail as you can
You might have better luck on asking your friends to sign up and then post a question. Have them purposefully pick you. Or research your answer and include a link.
ask the person
give a good answer
Know what you're talking about before you answer. Actually know the subject you're talking about. That might help. Also, make it lengthy. Not like mine. My answer is BAD.
find a question that no one seems interested in answering - if you are the only one who answers = automatic best answer!
Why care?
The best thing you can do is to not obsess on a completely meaningless thing, like your answer being picked by the asker as best, or by voters.
What do you think will happen, ultimate ecstacy?
Not.
I don't know about sports categories, specifically.
Read the question, including all the Details, and make sure you understand what the person is asking.
Then read the answers that have already been given (Refresh the screen, so you can see them all).
If what you have to say has already been given, don't bother answering; move on. When a bunch of people give identical answers, the first is usually picked.
When you answer, answer completely. Give back-up sources, when reasonable.
Be coherent and clear. Explain so what you've said is understandable.
But if you think getting a Best is going to do you any good, you're in for a big surprise; it isn't.
Get a grip.
ive had about 5 just answer to the best of your knowlege and thoroughly
answer questions that you actually know about. dont just wikipedia something because chances are someone will give a better answer off their actual knowledge. i started off with 0% best answers for basically all of my answers (like all up until 2weeks ago) and then i started to pick the questions i answer more carefully and answer the ones i have personal experience with or that i just know. then i got like, 7 best answers in about a week.
also, dont make your answer too short (about my answer length is between ok and a bit short) or too long (voters wont read it because its a pain to read lol)
hope this helps
I would love to give you advice... But I have the exact same problem! No matter how hard you try, it seems as if someone always one-ups you! Well, I will post a question in a few minutes with the title of your username and I will give you the best answer. Just to make your day! : )
(if you don't respond tonight then I will give the points to someone else who I feel deserves it. But hey, at least I am giving you a chance.)
Need some advice! How can do i confess to her!?
i fallen for this girl for about nearly a year already. we have been texting each other regularly and went out once for a dinner. But i jux really have no idea how and wad to say to her that i wanna she to be my gf! someone help?Need some advice! How can do i confess to her!?
fill her locker up with chocolate and give her balloons on a random day.Need some advice! How can do i confess to her!?
First you need to divorce your wife... *****
This may sound a bit cheesy but, get her her favorite dessert[brownie, cupcake, etc. If you don't know just use a brownie] and write in icing 'will you be my girlfriend?' Simple as that.
TYEAH girls like it when boys tell them first that they want them
since you had gone out with her once then it could be a little easier to ask her out again and when your on the date ask her to be your girlfriend good luck
First type not use all of the short cuts you use for texting and then speak truthfully to her and take your chances
Let's be more than friends. I love you. Easy?
your grammar isn't that bad, but you do need some help. just take her out to a really nice restaurant and bring up the subject and just tell her that you really like her and ask her if she feels the same way..and if she doesn't cool-just friends but if she does then you should ask her to be your girlfriend. good luck! :-)
ask her if she likes her
don't be afraid, I'm a girl! i kno
then if she says yes, ask her out
if she says no, well that's weird since she talks to you and texts you
so...good luck!
hope this helped!
Well... it's just a matter of willing to... Don't know how is she... but, you can ask her directly it's the best form because you'll get direct answers. You could say something like... ';You know... we've known each other since some time ago and I think (tell her what you think of her), and I wonder if it possible that we could be something more than good friends...'; it's a little bit classical but it can work... good luck :)
Tell her you want to talk... arrange a time and place... eat dinner... and then tell her what's on you mind!
Explain that you have long admired her and that you want to be more than just friends.
And don't worry! Either way, yes or no, just knowing an answer will be good!
haha heres what i did, i didnt ask the girl to go out with me, but my way of seeing if she liked me or not, was to tell her i liked her. she talked to me and called me reguarly, and her best friend new i liked her, and they both called me one day. (3 way phone call) and then i brought up the subject of somone liking somone (i just used 2 random names) and then they started talking about who they liked, and then they asked me, and i told the girl i like, that her friend knows who i like. and the girl i liked asked me why i wont tell her, and u can guess from there.
But my advice would be, shes most likely interested in you if she went on a dinner date.
ask her if she wants to go to a movie or somthing, and what type. let her pick the movie. hopefully she says a horror movie, or a romantic movie.
because if its a horror movie she'll cuddle up to you, if she likes you/or is interested. if she does, dont move to quickly onto her, but dont denie her cuddling, cuddle back. and then after the movie ask her if she had a good time, and if she wants to do it again. if she says yes, shes definantly interested in you. and if she does say yes, ask her too a dinner, after which u can ask her out.
Another approuch is the school ask out, i highly recommend u dont ask her durring school, because if she says no everyone will be talking about it. So it would be better to ask her on a friday, after school. wait until shes alone, walking home or somthing and say somthing to her. if shes in a sad mood, cheer her up and then pop the question.
Everyone has there different approuches, i think the best is this one.. ';hey.. this is kind of embarrasing..'; (look down at your feet and create some distraction) and hopefully ur close to somthing clean u can sit down on, and lightly grab her wrists and softly pull her down onto the bench, or whatever you choose to sit on. softly drag your hands from her wrists down to her fingers and ask either. ';will you be my girlfriend?'; or.. ';Will you go out on a date with me.';
well, hope i helped. good luck with ur hunny.
1st--work onyour spelling and grammar. It sucks. 2nd--just casually bring up the subject and ask her to be your girlfriend you dumbnut!
3 MAGIC WORDS. I Love You.
dont ask u dont get - if u want it go for it what have u got to lose
fill her locker up with chocolate and give her balloons on a random day.Need some advice! How can do i confess to her!?
First you need to divorce your wife... *****
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This may sound a bit cheesy but, get her her favorite dessert[brownie, cupcake, etc. If you don't know just use a brownie] and write in icing 'will you be my girlfriend?' Simple as that.
TYEAH girls like it when boys tell them first that they want them
since you had gone out with her once then it could be a little easier to ask her out again and when your on the date ask her to be your girlfriend good luck
First type not use all of the short cuts you use for texting and then speak truthfully to her and take your chances
Let's be more than friends. I love you. Easy?
your grammar isn't that bad, but you do need some help. just take her out to a really nice restaurant and bring up the subject and just tell her that you really like her and ask her if she feels the same way..and if she doesn't cool-just friends but if she does then you should ask her to be your girlfriend. good luck! :-)
ask her if she likes her
don't be afraid, I'm a girl! i kno
then if she says yes, ask her out
if she says no, well that's weird since she talks to you and texts you
so...good luck!
hope this helped!
Well... it's just a matter of willing to... Don't know how is she... but, you can ask her directly it's the best form because you'll get direct answers. You could say something like... ';You know... we've known each other since some time ago and I think (tell her what you think of her), and I wonder if it possible that we could be something more than good friends...'; it's a little bit classical but it can work... good luck :)
Tell her you want to talk... arrange a time and place... eat dinner... and then tell her what's on you mind!
Explain that you have long admired her and that you want to be more than just friends.
And don't worry! Either way, yes or no, just knowing an answer will be good!
haha heres what i did, i didnt ask the girl to go out with me, but my way of seeing if she liked me or not, was to tell her i liked her. she talked to me and called me reguarly, and her best friend new i liked her, and they both called me one day. (3 way phone call) and then i brought up the subject of somone liking somone (i just used 2 random names) and then they started talking about who they liked, and then they asked me, and i told the girl i like, that her friend knows who i like. and the girl i liked asked me why i wont tell her, and u can guess from there.
But my advice would be, shes most likely interested in you if she went on a dinner date.
ask her if she wants to go to a movie or somthing, and what type. let her pick the movie. hopefully she says a horror movie, or a romantic movie.
because if its a horror movie she'll cuddle up to you, if she likes you/or is interested. if she does, dont move to quickly onto her, but dont denie her cuddling, cuddle back. and then after the movie ask her if she had a good time, and if she wants to do it again. if she says yes, shes definantly interested in you. and if she does say yes, ask her too a dinner, after which u can ask her out.
Another approuch is the school ask out, i highly recommend u dont ask her durring school, because if she says no everyone will be talking about it. So it would be better to ask her on a friday, after school. wait until shes alone, walking home or somthing and say somthing to her. if shes in a sad mood, cheer her up and then pop the question.
Everyone has there different approuches, i think the best is this one.. ';hey.. this is kind of embarrasing..'; (look down at your feet and create some distraction) and hopefully ur close to somthing clean u can sit down on, and lightly grab her wrists and softly pull her down onto the bench, or whatever you choose to sit on. softly drag your hands from her wrists down to her fingers and ask either. ';will you be my girlfriend?'; or.. ';Will you go out on a date with me.';
well, hope i helped. good luck with ur hunny.
1st--work onyour spelling and grammar. It sucks. 2nd--just casually bring up the subject and ask her to be your girlfriend you dumbnut!
3 MAGIC WORDS. I Love You.
dont ask u dont get - if u want it go for it what have u got to lose
How to taper off seroquel and lamictal? i cant afford psych dr anymore and now she wont give me any advice.?
i cant pay my dr anymore so now my perscription is running out soon and she wont tell me how to taper off cause i dont have the money to see her anymore. kinda in a bad spot hear. any advice?????How to taper off seroquel and lamictal? i cant afford psych dr anymore and now she wont give me any advice.?
arent all mental health professionals covered by health care?How to taper off seroquel and lamictal? i cant afford psych dr anymore and now she wont give me any advice.?
This sounds serious!! Your doctor should be turned into someone. She should at least tell you how to taper off your medicine %26amp; give you names of some that will help over the counter. DON'T just STOP taking the drugs. It is very dangerous! and you'll feel VERY BAD also. Do you have like a clinic in your area. There has to be someone, even a regular doctor that can get your records from that psycho! I'm sorry, I don't usually talk about people like that, but in my opinion, THEY ARE NOT HELPING YOU! They just wanted their money %26amp; left you out in the cold. I don't even know who to turn her in to. I would call the hospital where she works on People, call the better business bureau, %26amp; I know there is someone who you can turn doctors in for this.
I am on a milder medicine %26amp; wanted to stop. I missed 3 or 4 days in a row %26amp; WOW did I feel bad. I still have my insurance, (for now) %26amp; I'm taking it everyother day right now. You may have to make a lot of calls, %26amp; you might get lucky %26amp; find one pretty quick. I also know that I stopped seeing my psych (which was a good one) but my family doctor kept filling my meds %26amp; would even give me samples. And, he knows how to get off the medicine without causing more trouble.
GOOD LUCK!!!
use this over the counter medication to either taper off are replace your current meds. I had a similar situation and found this to work by accident. it is used for sleep but actually acts like seroquel. saved me alot off money too. I bought it for 5.99 at w_all_mart.
https://www.overstockdrugstore.com/product_images/g/074312157455_med.jpg
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Melatonin
arent all mental health professionals covered by health care?How to taper off seroquel and lamictal? i cant afford psych dr anymore and now she wont give me any advice.?
This sounds serious!! Your doctor should be turned into someone. She should at least tell you how to taper off your medicine %26amp; give you names of some that will help over the counter. DON'T just STOP taking the drugs. It is very dangerous! and you'll feel VERY BAD also. Do you have like a clinic in your area. There has to be someone, even a regular doctor that can get your records from that psycho! I'm sorry, I don't usually talk about people like that, but in my opinion, THEY ARE NOT HELPING YOU! They just wanted their money %26amp; left you out in the cold. I don't even know who to turn her in to. I would call the hospital where she works on People, call the better business bureau, %26amp; I know there is someone who you can turn doctors in for this.
I am on a milder medicine %26amp; wanted to stop. I missed 3 or 4 days in a row %26amp; WOW did I feel bad. I still have my insurance, (for now) %26amp; I'm taking it everyother day right now. You may have to make a lot of calls, %26amp; you might get lucky %26amp; find one pretty quick. I also know that I stopped seeing my psych (which was a good one) but my family doctor kept filling my meds %26amp; would even give me samples. And, he knows how to get off the medicine without causing more trouble.
GOOD LUCK!!!
use this over the counter medication to either taper off are replace your current meds. I had a similar situation and found this to work by accident. it is used for sleep but actually acts like seroquel. saved me alot off money too. I bought it for 5.99 at w_all_mart.
https://www.overstockdrugstore.com/product_images/g/074312157455_med.jpg
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Melatonin
Does any one have advice on how to become a famous singer?
I have the talent and i know it. I just need an oppurtunity...Does any one have advice on how to become a famous singer?
email me at tonja_myers@yahoo.com and I will send you some infoDoes any one have advice on how to become a famous singer?
Go to Indian Idol
go on american idol
There is no easy answer...
It takes dedication, heart, and more work than you have ever done in your entire life. It requires you to make your name and your music known. It requires you to make the record industryt think that they are losing money by NOT signing you.
Then, once you have the record companies interest, it requires the right deal, then it requires the right song on the right CD at the right time in the right market.
It also requires you to NEVER give up, regardless of the difficulties that get thrown at you, and to NEVER accept any other outcome than the one you want.skin
email me at tonja_myers@yahoo.com and I will send you some infoDoes any one have advice on how to become a famous singer?
Go to Indian Idol
go on american idol
There is no easy answer...
It takes dedication, heart, and more work than you have ever done in your entire life. It requires you to make your name and your music known. It requires you to make the record industryt think that they are losing money by NOT signing you.
Then, once you have the record companies interest, it requires the right deal, then it requires the right song on the right CD at the right time in the right market.
It also requires you to NEVER give up, regardless of the difficulties that get thrown at you, and to NEVER accept any other outcome than the one you want.
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