Tuesday, July 27, 2010

I need some advice on how to handle this guy.?

Well, there is this guy that texts me almost everyday. And so he always says stuff like, if your happy i'm happy, your so beautiful and everything. And i think that its sweet. But i am not into him at all. So i asked him if he like me and he said yes. Then he asked me to be his girlfriend and i kindly rejected him, because he was starting to creep me out a bit. Then he says like oh i'll be waiting for you, and i love you. What should i do?I need some advice on how to handle this guy.?
tell him to back off. seriously hun if the guy is that addicted to you now? imagine what you guys will be like when u start dating. it hurts to tell them no because when they call you pretty and stuff it makes youy feel good, but its for the best. let him know your not interested in him at all. start ignoring him all together. ignore his texts, calls, everything. eventually helll get the message, and if he doesnt, have one of your girls talk to him!I need some advice on how to handle this guy.?
well.... definately dont lead him on... that could cause some major problems between you two.... i would be careful about what you say and how much you talk to him... because you rejected him he now has a challenge to try and get you.... so he'll probably try harder... so youre going to want to be subtle and try and get the point across to him that you arent interested... reduce the amount or time you talk to him, dont put a ton of these ( =), =P, %26lt;3) in texts.... thats what i would do..





good luck!!!! =)
How long has he actually known you?


Sometimes us guys put 100% of who we are into everything we do.


would you have given him a chance if he would have not come on that strong? Sometimes when guys feel there is no more options they throw in the towel and tell the truth. Telling the truth is a great thing but he probably just thought there were no other options left to try and get your attention. Maybe say hey i appreciate the gesture except i am not looking for that right now and see what the future holds. People are so impatient these days. Makes me say to people same concept if you pay for something cheap your going to get something cheap. Your a Dime piece don't settle for a nickle





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Just tell him, and if he said he would wait, then just say thanks. And let him wait. And he won't really come around u that often, but if he does, then just.......say, ';sorry, but I'm slightly bothered by your presence '; Or just say, I'm busy, I'll talk to u later kays??


U knw all the simple stuff to get away.But u have to get your message across first.THEN, if he still bothers u, then only u do all these kind of stuff, like I'm busy, see u later type of thing.


God bless u.


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Tell him you would rather just stay friends. There are ways of putting things in tactful manners. But you cant lead him on eigther. Asking him ';do you like me'; is kind of saying that you care how he feels, and is giving him the wrong impressions. Yuo can still talk and text, just slow it down, he may think there is hop if you dont, then he wont be hurt in the end.
hey girl,





doesn't sound creepy to me at all. you shouldn't freak out okay? i think he's just so in love with you. some guys are really patient and they just belive that one day you would eventually fall for them.





another thing could be that, he only wants to get in ur pants. so u have to use ur girl instincts to think hard on this one ok? some guys can wait 10 years just to sleep with you and i dont think any girl would aprreciate that feeling of being used...





think think think....doesn't sound like a out-of-control situation.





but if u are truly uncomfortable with him, u could let him down nicely so that his feelings wont get hurt ok?
Give him a chance, maybe you will find out that you actually like him %26lt;3





if you don't want to, just kindly let him know that you are freaking him out and you would like it if he stopped texting you so much. Hopefully he will get it and move on.





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Tell him he needs to back off and you two can only be friends. Change your number. Assuming you're a teenager, talk to your parents if that doesn't work, maybe they can talk to his parents or the police. You can get a stalking order.
Stop talking to him yo. Texting him back is only making him keep doing it. I mean NO RESPONSE at all. Either you don't no how to tell a guy no (and this is the best way) or you are just boosting your ego which is also lame.
He really likes you and if you are not all in to him now maybe you will be in to him later!





so give it a shot and if you like the way things turn out maybe you should just break up and be friends
i mean he really likes you and if you dont like him maybe you guys can just be friends. but from what i read heis really in to you. like do you have feelings for him.
dont change anything. talk to him normally. if you dont like the way he acts towards u anymore tell stop it or u wont be his friend anymore.
Tell him you aren't into him and you guys can't talk if he's going to keep talking to you like that because it's inappropriate.
get away.. its nice that he likes you but your not leading him on considering you rejected him


but when he says he loves you that would just creep me out
Tell him you want to chew his penis off, that will scare the **** out of him
Just tell him again you're not interested, and then ignore his texts and stop answering him.
Just don't answer his texts and if he gets a hold of you just say my phone ran out of battery. Also you could say I already have a boyfriend...
go for it!
try to avoid him, and don't lead him on and get his hopes up thats the worst thing to do.
tell him in a really nice way that you are not interested and will never be. and tell him to stop wasting his time. or give him some time, u know time always tells.
Tell him he's making you uncomfortable and ask for a bit of space.
i'm in the same boat except i said yes. i'd avoid him or kindly suggest other people?
Change your cell number.
forget about him and be happy because if you are happy then i am happy sis
ignore him.

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