Saturday, July 31, 2010

How do i muster up the courage to ask a girl out people. Please give me some advice.?

Especially women. hehehehe!How do i muster up the courage to ask a girl out people. Please give me some advice.?
The easiest way to get over that hump and ask a girl out is to think about what would happen if you never find the courage to do so...What would happen if you don't ask her out? Probably nothing. Think about that, and about how you wish you would have done or said something when you had the opportunity.





You cannot fear the rejection; what you have to fear is the regret of never asking in the first place. Trust me, you wouldn't regret asking her out, even if she said ';no.'; Realistically, there is no difference between her saying ';no'; to you, and you never asking (thereby automatically making the answer ';no';). At least you'd know. It's what you don't say, that you'd regret the most.





-OR-


Alternatively, you could just get drunk (or high) beforehand. I do that when I need to calm the shakes, and I'm definitely not short on courage in those times!





Now go git 'er!How do i muster up the courage to ask a girl out people. Please give me some advice.?
Just be confident and cool. Nobody's saying you have to be totally calm, but it does help. If you get shot down, it's important to brush it aside quickly and move on as if you really didn't want her to say yes. It may seem cruel, but this will establish dominance amongst female friends of said romantic interest. I mean, don't be a jerk about it or anything. If you get a yes, great. Good job. If no, just act quickly to erase the thought from everybody's short term memory.
To pluck up your courage, one way is to be thick skin and make it short and sharp. Try some of this suggestions. Just close your eyes and repeat after me.


1.Ah girl, I want to go out with you!


2.Dear girl, you free, want to go out?


3.Wow..this girl has turned into a woman, want to go out?


4.Pretty woman, go out, interested?


5.Hello babe, $50 an hour, want to go out?


Now, ain't that good advice? Hahahaha! (Don't repeat this)


Good luck?
don't think of it as an instant relationship.


your want to get to know her.


she maybe beautiful but she could be a crazy monster inside.


or have a personality you can't stand,


think of it as a parlay





i have been with girls that i just wanted to run away from


and never see Again. they seem great at fiist.
Well one of the easiest ways to do it is to just write out the message on your phone. But have on a text message sending to the one you like. This helps If you fail every other opportunity you get. Grab a coin flip it and decide heads or tails heads you push send and pray lol. Tails flip the coin again.
this probably isnt the answer you are looking for.. but just do it





think of it like this.. nothing ventured nothing gained. if you dont ask her out then you dont have any chance of going out with her


and if she says no... then you'll just have to get over it. everyones gets turned down sometimes, its normal
Grow some balls, start a conversation, and ask her out.
Just strike up a conversation with her.Then you might get some idea if she likes you.If you get on-then ask her. ;)
make a date with the presentation of some nice flowers. we die when flowers are given.

No comments:

Post a Comment